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| Pregnancy What must we go through? Let's talk about everything from beginning to end! |
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Help me calm my boyfriend.
Hello, I need a little help.
(forgive my forwardness, but I need to be XD) My boyfriend came while we were making out (he usually warns me to slow things down but we were alone in the house so I said it was okay) We were both fully clothed, and I was even on my period so I was wearing a pad and a tampon. I didn't feel ANY type of liquid get on me, and my period continued as usual into the next few days. After a couple weeks I got a terrible headache, but other than that had no unusual symptoms. But for SOME REASON my boyfriend is stressing out and loosing sleep over the fact that I could be pregnant. There's still a couple weeks until I can expect my next period so I couldn't get any kind of accurate result from a pregnancy test, so I need to know if someone could tell me, based on my circumstances if its even possible I could be pregnant! He's seriously in bad shape, getting nauseous periodically and waking up in cold sweats, He doesn't deserve that stress! I need help to prove there's nothing to worry about! Thank you! |
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10-20-2009, 10:33 PM
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If the circumstances are exactly what you explained and there was no penetration, correct? Then I don't think you have anything to worry about. Maybe I'm just a little confused though.... I mean where did he ejaculate exactly?
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10-20-2009, 10:38 PM
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Your boyfriend has been brainwashed by overzealous abstinence-only sex education.
You're not pregnant. It would take an act of God to get you pregnant under those circumstances. Google "trying to conceive" and see how many women are having 100% sex without ANY kind of contraceptive at all and how hard it is for them to get pregnant. That doesn't give you a free card, be careful etc, but right now you are scott free. |
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10-20-2009, 10:42 PM
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THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!
Now to rub it in his face. Please, if anyone has anything else to back me up, PLEASE DO! 
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10-20-2009, 10:43 PM
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No penetration, no pregnancy (unless you were both naked and close to each other or he had semen on his fingers and fingered you) But from what you explained, no you're not pregnant. The head ache can be from ANYTHING...maybe HE'S giving you the headache (just kidding
). The head ache could be from having your period. Also stressing about it MIGHT cause you to be late for your period! So both try to calm down, and wait it out.How old are you two? Have either of ever had sex at all? From what I understand, he came in his underwear and pants? and you also had underwear and pants on, along with a pad AND tampon on? No chance. This might help for now...take a pregnancy test and show him the negative result. Tell him you talked to adult women who HAVE been pregnant and ARE pregnant (me) and they said, NO CHANCE 
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We are both 18 years old, both virgins, and we don't plan on starting sex until I can get birth control to use ON TOP of the condom. I haven't been stressing AT ALL about this. I knew the moment he started to explain what he though that it was ridiculous and that there was nothing to worry about. I've already done a pregnancy test and it came out negative (Though it says it would detect as early as the missed period and my period isn't expected to start for a couple weeks) I saved the other one for around then. Thank you thank you thank you! I really needed to hear this from women like you!
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10-20-2009, 10:54 PM
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Hahaha.
Awww. Poor guy. What a lack of sex education can do to a person. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend like 5 times in one week before I got around to getting an IUD. How's THAT for stress! Has he calmed down yet? |
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10-20-2009, 11:00 PM
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I'll check on him in the morning. How do I tell him I got my advice from a ladies health forum? XD
Thank you everyone! |
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10-20-2009, 11:43 PM
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Why not sign in and just let him see this thread
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