MammaMia, as you posted, it is a woman's choice
whether or not she can have a baby now.
The Morning After Pill is safe, so is the method
you used.
What I find with these fundies and their
'ripping baby out', is I don't see any orphanages.
I don't see any stipends paid to mothers for
the next eighteen years to look after the child.
In fact, outside of a bag of mouth, I don't
see their contribution at all.
What makes these fundies such hypocrites
is that one would have expected before they
dumped their money into annoyances and
interference, they'd have built the most
fabulous orphanages all over the world
Pro Life (its my choice but we are talking about hers here)
See, this woman posted a request for knowlege not personal appoinions and an over used amount of disrespect between users. She simply wanted some information and obviously she was confused.
If you go to a free clinic in your town, they will have information on every avenue. Pamplets to let you know about your rights and choices. Also, they have phone numbers and locations of places that you can go to.
What is comes down to is you! If you want this baby go for it. Pregnancy is wonderful and I am enjoying it imsensly. Feeling your baby kick is a wonderful experience. But, darling, I was ready to be a mommy financially and ready for it in my life. But not all woman are ready for the pregnancies that life has given them. There are so many oppinions on this matter and I don't think I need to share mine. All I can give you is the requested information you wondered about. Also, if you google abortions, there is so much information on the web about it. If you are in high school, depending on what kinda school you go to, the school nurse can even help in this matter. They can tell you the avenues to travel to.
Which ever you decide you need to know its the right decision for you. Think about it cause either decision is a decision you have to live with for the rest of your life.
wow.. I cant believe that women are still leaving threads on this.. I havent seen anything in awhile. The question at the top was pretty simple one and yes "she" didnt ask for peoples opinions. I try to put that in one of my threads at the top. I just wanted to put some facts down at first and then state the same thing, that opinions weren't really necessary. But when someone writes a thread back Its hard not to answer that one also. Yes this may not be the place to put OUR own opinions no matter what they may be, but I just felt it important that for ANY woman who may have wanted to know about abortions (maybe not just the original woman), that there are choices that everyone has to make in their own lives.. everyone story and choices are diffrent. Even though some may not have appreciated the thread i posted about my own personal experience with abortion.. It may have been helpful to someone out there reading this who is thinking of getting one (to go either way) or someone who has been in the same situation as I have and are still trying to deal with it.. and you know what else just telling my story was a big help to myself. I just thought that is something i can do on this website is try to help others and also myself.I have never try to persuade anybody to think the way I do. I have really never been rude or disrespectfull.. but very understanding. I know the women on this site have been very insightful and helpful to me and I also try to do the same thats all. Sorry If I offended anyone , never meant to do that.
I just wanted to let you know that adpotion is a great choice. My bf and his ex had a open adpotion when they were 18. She is now 4 and he gets to see her regualrly. She is such a little doll. I know that adoption isn't for everyone, but its worth looking into.
There are over 126,000 teen abortions per day. More than half abortions are from wealthy women who can obtain birth control easily. Whoever told you that an aborted baby was never a life, lied to you. What would God say; getting an abortion is killing one of his children.
Repost this if you are against abortion; click reply to copy all the codes and post
Last edited by womens-health; 06-30-2007 at 01:38 PM.
what right do you have to imprint that on my brain with out a warning?
have you even stopped and thought about how people with life or death d&cs feel about looking at them?
or the people hoping with there life there not miscarrying ?
abortion is a choice
reading this forum is a choice
you took away my choice and every other person on this forum as to
looking at pictures like that
have you stopped and thought how many people you have upset?
you yell choose life i did i my own but thank you for reminding me why i wanted to live to help my 3 sons grow up
to make sure they dont marry self centered people like you
Dont have an abortion, this should never be an option. Its not our choice to end a life. whether its your friend or your unborn baby. There is always a way out, and lots of people that can help you, look around in your area for support. And if you choose adoption, that would be great, there are so many people out there that are just dieing for a baby, that would give your unborn a great life.
I don't know if the original poster is still about...if so, I hope you are alright sweetheart, and that you weren't upset by comments that some judgemental people have made here.
An abortion carried out in a safe medical environment is very safe physically. You might be very rocky afterwards emotionally, so please do be sure it is the right choice for you, and find some support whatever you decide. Whatever you do it won't necessarily be easy but neither will it destroy your life.
Beware of certain websites and organisations pushing an agenda - many claim to be neutral but in fact will give you misinformation about abortion. If you need to talk your decision through beforehand, try to find a neutral counsellor, who won't railroad you into one option but will try to help you explore your feelings and options.
Good luck with this - I know women who have had abortions and felt fine afterwards, and others who have felt great sadness. Likewise I know women who have decided to have the baby and been so happy, and others who while they love their children, feel it was not maybe the best choice.
Life is complicated and there is sometimes no best way, just "least bad". What is important is you make a decision that is right for you. We don't know anything about your life or circumstances, we aren't any of us in a place to judge what you should do.
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