hug her, love her, and remember that at the time you both thought it was best. You do this type of decision making daily as a parent. Sometimes the decision results in unfavorable results and sometimes it was the best thing you could have done. It was not impulsive, you felt you were doing what other Doc's, more experienced Doc's said was best. Being there for each other is the best thing you can do. Expert help can only help improve your relationship. Hold her and reassure her and yourself that you have done the right thing, as you both thought was best. No matter who pushed or who pulled it was a joint decision.