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yes im now 13 and a half weeksOriginally Posted by jns
Good news, thanks for sharing. If I calculated correctly from your other posts, you are at the end of your first trimester.
yes im now 13 and a half weeks
x~There is a place you can touch a woman that will drive her crazy......Her heart!~x
x~the wench~x
Follow your heart. You'll know which one to choose.
Hey Girly im in the same exact situation. i just recently found out im 5 weeks pregnant and my bf already has 3 children. he is set on abortion but i asked him how dare you come to me and tell me to do something like that when you didnt their mother that. im still stuck in the middle i feel like if he makes me do this i will hate him for the rest of my life because i felt forced into it. I have had 3 abortions already and the last time i was pregnant i tried to keep it but had a miscarriage, im scared that this last one will ruin me for ever having kids in the future. I just want you to follow your heart hey if he doesnt like it your a strong women you can do it dont let him make the decision for you................i know i should take my own advice but its hard when someone is in your ear with the word "abortion"
Something similar happened to my sister. She found out she was pregnant, knew her boyfriend would leave her because they hadn't planned on having children, so she thought about aborting. She didn't, and he did leave for about a week and decided to man up and become a father. Now they are engaged to be married, and are planning for baby number 2!
Every man is different on how they take the news. If he threatens to leave you, he doesn't really love you. He isn't caring for YOUR feelings. If you know you will regret it, then don't do it. You have raised 2 children on your own, one more will be easy, and if he is any man, he will be there for the both of you. Saying he will leave, in my opinion, is childish.
Best of luck to you. I hope you can make the right choice for you.
To the posters above, if you go back to page 3, you'll note that the OP is keeping her baby and should be nearly 18 weeks now.The Wench
good news everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!
we are going ahead with the baby!!!!!!!!!
am so happy now......thank you all for your much needed advice and point of views
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
I think I shall close this one. It would be lovely if Wench would start another thread to keep us posted but her original concern has been resolved and it serve no purpose to have people who haven't read the entire thread to keep commenting on what is now a moot point.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
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