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She needs to see a doctor or go to a clinic.
help me..ABORTION
i have this friend who just texted me while ago that, she had a big big problem,
the story goes like this
she is 2 weeks pregnant and just broke up with her bf. her bf cheat on him and being with the girl right now,she cried on the phone and tell me how she hurts, and she doesn't want that baby because she had no parents she lived alone in her apartment,she wants me to help her to abort that baby, and i don't know how?she is a closed friend of mine and i want to help her really,i feel pity for her .,
any idea what should we do..?advice is appreciated,,
thank you,,
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She needs to see a doctor or go to a clinic.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
I'd let her talk and talk to you about it...
It's more than likely that she doesn't want the baby because her boyfriend cheated on her and has left her, not because she has no parents.
A person has to be certain that they don't want to bring a child into this world and also that they can afford to do so, if they choose to do so.
I'd also tell her to inform her boyfriend, he has a right to know what he has created.
And, yes, as WC stated, I'd then go and speak to a family planning member, or equivalent of, to discuss what happens with an abortion, the costs involved, or help she may get regarding costs.
The best thing you can do is ensure your there and that she has all the information she needs either way...
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
This is a time for support. I don't know if your friend is making this decision in the right way. As Chandlers Wish said let her talk and talk about this. Calm her down and let her talk it out. remind her that the baby is not all her BF and that if she really wants to get rid of it she needs to go see a Doc at that Family Planning Center or some other place. But let her talk it all out. It is best to let her talk because she may be making the decision rashly and not really thinking about it.
i agree with this.Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
you *need* to go to a clinic
you cannot safely abort a baby DIY style.
she needs to be certain because these things can haunt you.
before you take her to the clinic make sure she's weighed up the pros and cons of each side. its a difficult conversation to have but try not to influence her with your opinions just be there as as sounding board so she can sort through it herself.
and then you support her in whatever she decides.
i think im the minority but i dont think that the father has necessarily got the right to know.
i think in an ideal world obviously he would be the first person to talk to
but if they've split up i would think seriously about whether his opinions would lead her to a decision she's not comfortable with or one which would lead her to taking him back and trying to make it work purely for the sake of the child.
my friend is in a similar situation at the moment.
let us know how it goes yeah?
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'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'
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