I am a 21 year old who has been trying to concieve for about a year now... my fiance and i have both stayed very healthy and have used no forms of birth control in that year. Nothing for so long i was about to give up until about 2 1/2 weeks ago, first my nipples were sensative and sore, no period for a month, then the constant urination came, i have been very tired, little things like my acne started getting really bad... now im experiencing cramps in my lower abdominal area.. i have taken 2 preg tests and they are both negative... i know my body and i know somethings not right why would i be having a combo of these symptoms if i werent preggo? Also my Dr said to wait another 2 weeks or so and then take another tests... well i dont want to wait that long you know.. i want to know now so i can begin preparing i am still taking my prenatals... what else can i do any thoughts.. do i sound pregnant.. thiswould be my first pregnancy so i have so many questions.

Hey there, I was reading some posts on here and noticed many people are in my situation. Well I am 2 weeks late on my period and We have been trying for 2 months, i know thats not long, but see I was pregnant in april (13 weeks) but had a miscarriage. We have been trying since to have another. I am now weeks late( have always been on time) I have taken several HPT's but all are negative. I usually dont have to use the bathroom many times a day but here recently I have, then on top of that my clothes that fit just a few weeks ago are getting a bit snug around the waist. Is it possible to still be pregnant? I cant even go to the doctor's because i dont have insurance. I just was wondering if any one had any thoughts and if anyone out there could help!

Thanks

Does anybody get on here to actually help people, support or have answers ...all these threads are all basically just explaining their own situation and asking questions but no one is getting on here answering them or providing insights to others posts?

I see what youre saying, apparently everything is just questions but no answers. This doesnt really help does it? hmm, well maybe given time there will be someone out there who knows EXACTLY whats going on and will be there to help. until then, guess we're stuck! Although, after reading your situation, and because it closely resembles mine, I think that you are, and its the same way with me. I think that its probably best to go on and start preparing, and that will keep your mind occupied until next week. Altho your dr said 2 weeks, my advice would be to go ahead and narrow it to one. A friend of mine that i talked to yesterday said when she was prego with her son, that the test didnt show it for almost 5 months.... but obviously she was pregnant. I think your symptoms sound like pregnancy and until you can find out more, it should be treated as such.... If you find out any other information tho, keep me posted PLEASE!

Thanks!
Mandi

so just a update... i had a ultrasound.. and there was no baby... Just lining, and apparently it was moving... the tech actually called a doctor in... Im going to go and see my family doctor to see what he says, but everyone thinks hes going to get me to have a d&c. Which really freaks me out.... lol... But I am so glad to finally know. Anyone that is worried about being preggo, should go to their doctors, insead of waiting and worrying. If the blood tests come up negative, as for a ultrasound.

... So I wrote on here last week stating I thought I was preggo because I had all the classic signs, but couldnt pass a pregnancy test blood, or urine... So i went to the Dr today to see what the deal was.. they did an internal ultrasound and another blood test turns out i have PCOS polycistic ovary sydrome, which is a build up of cysts on my ovaries causing me to no longer ovulate making it that much harder to get pregnant.. it causes an hormonal imbalance causing you to hjave all the classic preggo symptoms including a missed period or two, but your not preggo... this sucks!!
Its not painful and most woman dont even know they have it...

hi,
i've been going outa my mind with this, been reading through the posts and it's really opened my eyes. This problem seems to be more and more common.

I'm usually on time or 2 days on either side. but never this late. 10 days today, I've been getting some cramps in this last week but they feel slightly differant to what i'm used to. They're less painfull, and last a few seconds longer. For some reason I cant explain I just know I'm not going to have a period. I check constantly, but already know before I do. I'm also getting a white/clear non smelly dicharge.

I did 2 hpt's after 4 days late and went to the doctors yesterday, he wouldnt do a test untill next week. He said it is still possibly too early to tell as the accuracy depends on your hormone levels.

after my appointment my mum took me to a clinic and we had a test done there, and it came back negative. Though it wasnt the first sample of the day which is what they prefer to have.
The nurse told me to wait another month and then go back to my gp.

I'm very confused, I dont know how to word how I feel, but something feels differant. Though that might be becuse I'm thinking about this so much.
My boyfriend suggested I go to the hospital and see if they can give conclusive answer, as both the doctor and the nurse didnt seem convinced by the result.

very confused!