LateAndFrustrated

I just came across this forum. I am so frustrated right now. The latest I have ever been is 7 days and then my period came. I have been regular for the past year and my husband and I are trying to conceive. Well now I am 16 days late. I have had 2 negative hpt's and 1 negative blood test, which I just took last Friday. My ob tells me my uterus is enlarged and she estimates i might be around 6 weeks pregnant. This was before the blood test came back today. So now I have to go have an ultra sound to find out what exactly is growing in me, if not a baby. I have 2 kids from a previous marriage, so I know I'm capable, but it's been 10 years. I have symptoms of pregnancy too. Tender breasts, very tired all the time, I pee like every 10 minutes! We'll see. I'm still not convinced that I'm NOT preggers. Good luck to you all!

merlyr

so hubby and i are trying to concieve! i am now almost a month late on my period, have not had a period since july 11th, got multiple htps as well as a negative blood test still have not had my period! i keep feeling like it will start, (cramping, bloated) but it has not! about 2 weeks ago i had a day where i wiped after #1 and it was pink! help could i still be prego anyone have this before?

LateAndFrustrated

So I guess all it took was for me to write this cause I have started my period. I can't believe my body tricked me into making me think I was pregnant. Oh well, now I have to go for a complete exam to find out what's wrong with me and why I can't seem to get pregnant again. I'm 36 and in fairly decent shape. Well good luck to the rest of you.

eating_days

Im not going to read all of the posts, there are 15 pages but.... I NEED HELP!!!!!!
I have missed 2 periods, the first day of my last period was July 29th. I was on a birth control called yaz. My husband didnt pull out. I have one child already, so its not like I just dont know pregnancy. Anyway, I have taken 13 pregnancy test at home since then, and 2 blood tests. I have seen (the worlds worst) a doctor already, and she just basically called me a lier when I told her some of my sypmtoms. Its way worse than my first pregnancy, if I am pregnant. I'm so bloated, I have double-over-and-cry pains under my ribcage and between my hip bones, my back is achy, I have sharp pains in my neck on the right side, and under my right arm, I drink about 15 glasses of water a day from craving it, I have gained abdominal weight, I cought my best friend's husband smoking behind her back becuase I could SMELL the ciggrettes on him from 10 feet away, I have loose stools, and worst is the headaches that I get. The Doctor said nothing is wrong with me, and gave me some heartburn medications. I told her that I wanted to see someone that had a degree in the medial field (scarasm) and the hospital made me another appointment for the 13th. I'm hoping to get an ultrasound done. I am bringing my husband to be a witness for this mess. I just cried in the Doctors office, I just want to know what is wrong with me. My husband and I WANT to have another baby, but I dont know what to tell him, I mean, I dont even have a period; How are we suppose to make a baby without that?

sugarkisses

Well have been reading through these posts for over a week and glad to see I am not alone. Last period was july 16th, having some symtoms including increased bathroom visits, really sore boobies (sorry if TMI), headaches, and feeling like i am gonna have AF but nothing happens. I have taken NUMEROUS hpt and all were BFN. My boyfriend and I have only been dating since July 28th but we made it offically offical that night if you follow :-) According to some online calculators the day off my last period and the conception date fit like a glove. I have been going made with all the negative tests though. I like many of the posters before my have NEVER been late but know its highly possible. I haven't been overly stressed and no big changes in my life (until I realized just how late I was). Fortunately I have a great guy, he is sticking by my side through the whole ordeal and is just as anxious as me to find out if we should start baby shopping. I feel like i am on an emotional rollercoaster though and I don't like it I want to get off!!! If there is no baby then I need someone to tell me whats going on. Not knowing SUCKS!!! I have an appointment on the 25th and and counting the days. I just hope the dr takes me seriously and checks out all the possiblies and doesn't tell me i am crazy!!!

The one thing I would love is for the people who have gotten answer to let the rest of us gals know what happened. I know some people have written but others seem to get their answer and forget about us still left out here is cyberspace wondering. I promise to keep posting til I get my answers and let everyone know what is going on. To the rest of you....sorry I am not much help now but I hope to be as soon as I find out what is going on with me.

SpecialScar

The birth control you are taking could be causing a HOST of problems. Hormonal birth control is TERRIBLE for our bodies! It's torturous and messes up the delicate balances that Nature has provided. All your symptoms could be from the Yaz - I would suggest getting off it if you haven't.
This is the info from their site. Don't believe the stats, either, remember, this is a BUSINESS, not a non-for-profit. . .
Common Symtoms -
intermenstrual bleeding, headache, nausea, breast pain, upper respiratory infection, asthenia, abdominal pain, decreased libido, emotional lability, suspicious Papanicolaou smear, nervousness, menorrhagia, pain in extremity, depression, menstrual disorder, migraine, sinusitis, weight gain, vaginal moniliasis, vaginitis, hyperlipidemia, back pain, diarrhea, increased appetite, enlarged abdomen, accidental injury, acne, dysmenorrhea, and urinary tract infection. The most frequent (> 1%) treatment-emergent adverse events, listed in descending order, reported with the use of YAZ in the acne clinical trials, which may or not be drug related, included: upper respiratory infection, metrorrhagia, headache, suspicious Papanicolaou smear, nausea, sinusitis, vaginal moniliasis, flu syndrome, menorrhagia, depression, emotional lability, abdominal pain, gastroenteritis, urinary tract infection, tooth disorder, infection, vomiting, pharyngitis, breast pain, dysmenorrhea, menstrual disorder, accidental injury, asthenia, sore throat, weight gain, arthralgia, bronchitis, rhinitis, amenorrhea, and urine abnormality.

wantababy

Hello, I am new to this site,and I am hving a large dilema. I am tired of everyone telling me that I am to young to be worried about kids. I am 24 years old and I have a lot going for me, I almost done with school, I have a great paying job, and I own my home. My husband is 28 and we have been together for 6 years. We have been trying to have a baby for 4 years, and still nothing and everytime the new month comes I pray this will be the one. I have gone to a physician and had all kinds of test and there is nothing wrong with either me or my husband, I have tried chlomid and nothing. Then just when I thought things would get better my Doctor put me on steriods for allergies and it gave me yeast infections and bacterial vaginitas on multiple occasions so that just meant I was going to go another 2 months, and no baby. I got off the steriods and everything is ok now. I have tried everything and I want a baby now.
PLEASE HELP!!

blueyed21

Maybe you should try using and ovulation test, they are used like pregnancy tests and they tell you the day that you will be the most fertile. So you know when you and your husband should have intercourse. I thought it is the 14th day from the first day of your last period but it's different for every woman, because not everone's cycle is 28 days. There's also certain positions that can be used during intercourse that may make it easier for you to conceive. You should check it out! Well, Good Luck!

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Shelby'sangel

Finally found a current thread. Been searching sites for days! Here's a background-29 yrs old-2 healthy kids 13&7. Had tubiligation 2003, met Mr right a year later Married him in 05 Had a tubal reversal in March. Been TTC since then traking OV & everything. Only one week late but my body says I'M PREGNANT!! Never late!! Tender breasts,very tired hot flashes sweating nausea in the eve, discharge- U name it- I've got it. But I also have a neg quantitive hCG test as of yesterday. Nurse said it was less than 2 which is considered neg. 2 many neg HPT's to count!! Still smiling though cuz until I see AF i'm not going think anything different. I know my body better than any Dr alive!! Even went to ER over the past weekend where I found The worst Dr. EVER!! Had to force him to do bloodwork after he TOLD ME he didn't think I was pregnant all!! (Last I checked Dr's were suposed to give diagnosis'not opinions- but whatever!!) At least now i'll have somebody that can relate to what I'm going through. In response to you guy's threads- Sugarkisses-when you go to your appt. You may have to make your Dr take you seriously. You know your body best!! If you still have a neg urine test, request ( or demand) a quantitative beta hCG one with numbers and you'll probably have 2 wait 24 hrs for the results but as far along as you could be if you are preg that test should be positive!! Then u should schedule an ultrasound to rule out a tubal because if it is tubal they can give you a shot before any damage occurs. A friend of mine had an ultrasound every 4 days until she was 6wks pregnant only to find an empty sack. Finally 6wks her Dr wanted her to do a D&C. She refused and the very next week her empty sack had a baby in it!! Stranger things have happened! So keep ur head up and listen 2 your own body and don't let any Dr ,no matter how qualified they may be; tell you what you feel!! Baby dust to all!!

Shelby'sangel

Hang in there! My ex sis-in law tried for ten years before having her first child and ended up having a total of four in the next six years!! I have a sis-in-law now been married for eleven years off BC for the last six TTC and gave birth this past Feb to a healthy Baby boy. If both of you arre capable of having children- you will as soon as the time is right!! I can relate to your wants- But unfortunately, even with all the medical advancements that have been made, we can't control mother nature!! So try tracking your ov days and relax! Soon enough you'll be blessed!! Good luck!!