Cramps, negative test, but no period 6 weeks late - Page 5

Somebodysangel21 · 05-21-2007, 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by imyour_angel20

somebodysangel21.

I am the same as you. My last period was on the 24 of March when I had a miscarriage. The doctors have all been looking at me like I?m crazy and I went for a blood test as well as several pregnancy test and they are all negative. I have been feeling tired and my stomach it as hard as a rock, as well as eating and tender breasts. I do not have morning sickness but I do feel nauseous sometimes.
I am very unhappy with the way the doctors have been treating me. After the blood test when the nurse called me and told me the results she said that maybe I had a cyst inside of my stomach and that is why it is so hard. I freaked out and I have been worried ever since because I do feel that I am pregnant. They doctor have also told me that it is just a phantom pregnancy that that it is all in my head. But it has been 57 days since my last period. "57" days. That is not normal at all; I have never gone more than 30 days ever. I felt so much better after finding this site and realizing that there are women just like me. WORRYING AND WONDERING and trying to find out what is going on. Hopefully things will sort out for all of us.

It is a great relief knowing that you are not the only one going through this. There has been several times where i acutally thought i was just crazy. lol. I saw my family doctor, and he was very understanding, he has sent me for a blood test and i will follow up with him later this week. He was really awesome. I was expecting, no your not pregnate, your just crazy. lol. Even though i did get a negative urine test when i was five months pregnate with my son. And they say im crazy. lol. All i can say is hang in there. And the best thing to do would be act as if you are pregnate. I didn't find out about my first pregnancy until i was five months along and i spent the rest of the pregnacy worring about the stuff i did when i didn't know. Needless to say, my son has come out amazing and healthy, to the surprise of the doctors. lol.

donkeybugs · 05-21-2007, 03:17 PM

hello every one i am 28 years old have two daughters i have been married for tweleve years now me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant but nothing i am getting to the point were i am ready to give up i just don't understand i was using the patch stopped one year and a half ago and till this day i am having problems not getting my period i just dont understand??? i feel so frustrated because i really want to have a shoot at trying to have a baby boy seems it will never happen!!!

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Originally Posted by iza

Has anyone been testing negative for over a month after the period due date and it turned out you were pregnant???

I went to the doc when I was a little less than 2 weeks late (4 weeks ago) and, just like at home using the HPT, my blood test was negative as well. At that time, I was also experiencing a little pain on one side, mostly when I was sitting up or snezzing, so the doctor sent me for an ultrasound. The u/s was good and the message I got was....no abnormalities. But I don't think she even considered me being pregnant, bc at that time I told her I had no symptoms. She even suggested to prescribe me provera to bring up my period (which was before even taking my blood or doing the ultrasound).

Now, 4 weeks later, I am experiencing period like pains, mostly near my belly botton and my lower back. My breast are much bigger and a tad tender. I also noticed some extra weight around my waist line. Besides that, I still have no other symptoms of pregnancy, but my period is still not here! Also, I was having quite a lot of whitish discharge for several days, about a week ago, which I read is quite common during pregnancy.

My husband and I were not trying to get pregnant or anything, but it could have happened as we were not as careful a couple of times. I just really want to know what is going on and whether I have a very good doctor or a very bad one. I will test at home again if my period does not come within a couple of days......it sure feels like it's comming (although I never have cramps before my period, but AFTER it starts).

Hopefully someone can answer some of my concerns. I will definitely post an update as soon as I figure out what is happening, but in the meantime, please tell me know you think.

Thanks!

nessy123 · 05-22-2007, 12:42 PM

I am am new to this as well, I have been trying for two months now and nothing as yet, although i was due on my period yesterday. I am normally like clockwork but i have not yet started my period, i have stomach cramps but not like period pains they are lighter. And some seem more in my lower rib cage then in my womb. Im not sure what this means and i was also feeling sick, and dizzy today which is notthe normfor me...

Can anyone please help.

hanbanan · 05-22-2007, 05:19 PM

my period is almost 3 weeks late, i usually get it within a day or two of the last time so i dont know whats going on now..i took 2 tests...the last one about a week ago, and they were negative. my stomach feels a little different than usual, like i'm full or something, and i've felt a few times like i was SURE i was going to get my period but it didn't come. Anyone else feel that way?

but i'm not very nauseas and my boobs aren't huge or sore. what is going on?!

hanbanan · 05-22-2007, 05:22 PM

also...i don't know if this would matter, but i took an ANTIBIOTIC, fluconozol, around when i was supposed to get my period because i had a yeast infection. would that do anything to either an oncoming period or a pregnancy??

spazchicken · 05-24-2007, 12:17 PM

I am so relieved. My period started today, so I really did just "skip" my period for last month. I'm sure the culprit was just stress from interviews.

Even though I've had 4 negative HPT results. I always hear of people having negative HPT but still being pregnant. I was also geting worried because I felt nauseous for 3 mornings, then I got really painful nipples(but I've had that before), then more recently had all around sore breast and a bloated feeling. I have been taking my Basel Body Temp for the last ten days and was stair stepping lower. My cervix was also getting softer.

I was a little worried today because my discharge was VERY watery and tinged with a little blood just like the time when I missed my period. I was thinking it would be just like that. But right when I went to this page I felt a "gush" and wha-la it started. I think drinking parlsey tea a few days prior to this may have helped but I was also drinking Don Qui and Black Cohosh tea before I was drinking parsley as well.

I guess since comming off Birth Control pills, even after 3 months, I'm just now starting to notice symptoms that I hadn't noticed while on the pills, but you don't usually ovulate on Birth Control so I see why.

I'm now going to chart my BBT and cervical mucus/softness throughtout my cycle for now on.

Anyways, That's the end of my long stressfull adventure

gemdews85 · 05-27-2007, 12:57 PM

hey i think you could be pregnant im having the excat same problem no period for two months, my tummy looks pregnant am feeling sick tired and moody but my pregnancy test was negative and my scan was normal

Wanting2BAMom · 06-01-2007, 06:47 AM

I am having a similar situation. I had a miscarriage last year (May to be exact) after having tried with my husband, "felt pregnant", take two negative HPT and then a positive HPT. I miscarried two days later (cramping and what I believe to be the actual "detachment" day after and expultion next day). Now, I was 3 weeks late on my period which is usually like clockwork, didn't really feel pregnant except for a little naseau and aroma sensitivity, took three tests (each 1 week apart) and were all negative. Had about a week of lite brownish spotting, (if you want to even call it that), as I had before. Yesterday had a little cramping and then lastnight brown and red starting of bleeding. This morning I am tired because I have been up with severe cramping to where it is making me naseautious, extreme lower back pain and more of a pinkish bleeding. My husband and I had been trying again to get pregnant. I am not sure if this was just an abnormal period (which is not typical but I am 33) or the egg could have been fertilized and never really grown to produce the hormone levels detectable by HPTs. I haven't had the expultion in one fell swoop (as to not be so graphic) as I did last time so I am really confused. Like I said, it's only happened the two times my husband and I were trying to get pregnant. Could this be another miscarriage? Could something be wrong with our compatibility to produce? Or is something wrong with me (i.e. ovarian cysts, endometriosis, PID?) I called the doctor yesterday before any bleeding and they couldn't see me until June 20th. I was talking about doing an internal sonogram to look at my cervix, uterus, etc. I had an annual exam May 14 and the PAP results were good. Anyone else have a similar situation or know what might be going on? THANKS!

karatemom · 06-01-2007, 09:49 PM

Okay, I went off of the pill in November b/c I wanted to get ready to start trying to get pregnant and knew it would take time for my cycle to regulate once I went off. Right away my breasts were soooo sore, but were less so with each cycle. My next cycle was 29 days, then 37, 31, 32, now I am on day 40 (Day 1 was April 20). I have taken three tests in the last 12 days all negative. Right now I have been gaining weight, am bloated, think my breasts are getting bigger and my nipples seem bigger and slightly darker, but they haven't felt sore at all. Even though I have been getting my period over the last few months I have felt very full since my 37 day cycle and my skin has been terrible, but now that I am late my skin is clearing and my appetite is back. I would be fine if I got my period, or a positive pregnancy test, but not having either is making me worry that I am having other health issues, which I know I shouldn't since it hear it is normal to skip every so often, but this wait is killing me. I have a doctors appointment June 13th, hopefully it will come by then if not I hope she can alleviate my fears.

bgoins21 · 06-07-2007, 02:24 PM

MY last period was April 22 i have toke home test all neg what the the doctor last thursday for blood test it was neg still no period, going to the bath room alot, some stomach pains trying to get pregnant, I have a 20 month old and the only symptoms with him was urinate more, this time I am urinating more some nausea, feeling tired. Please help what should I do.

05-22-2007, 05:19 PM	#44
hanbanan Junior Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 4	in the same boat i think my period is almost 3 weeks late, i usually get it within a day or two of the last time so i dont know whats going on now..i took 2 tests...the last one about a week ago, and they were negative. my stomach feels a little different than usual, like i'm full or something, and i've felt a few times like i was SURE i was going to get my period but it didn't come. Anyone else feel that way? but i'm not very nauseas and my boobs aren't huge or sore. what is going on?!

05-22-2007, 05:22 PM	#45
hanbanan Junior Member Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 4	.. also...i don't know if this would matter, but i took an ANTIBIOTIC, fluconozol, around when i was supposed to get my period because i had a yeast infection. would that do anything to either an oncoming period or a pregnancy??

05-24-2007, 12:17 PM	#46
spazchicken Junior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: CA Posts: 5	period started I am so relieved. My period started today, so I really did just "skip" my period for last month. I'm sure the culprit was just stress from interviews. Even though I've had 4 negative HPT results. I always hear of people having negative HPT but still being pregnant. I was also geting worried because I felt nauseous for 3 mornings, then I got really painful nipples(but I've had that before), then more recently had all around sore breast and a bloated feeling. I have been taking my Basel Body Temp for the last ten days and was stair stepping lower. My cervix was also getting softer. I was a little worried today because my discharge was VERY watery and tinged with a little blood just like the time when I missed my period. I was thinking it would be just like that. But right when I went to this page I felt a "gush" and wha-la it started. I think drinking parlsey tea a few days prior to this may have helped but I was also drinking Don Qui and Black Cohosh tea before I was drinking parsley as well. I guess since comming off Birth Control pills, even after 3 months, I'm just now starting to notice symptoms that I hadn't noticed while on the pills, but you don't usually ovulate on Birth Control so I see why. I'm now going to chart my BBT and cervical mucus/softness throughtout my cycle for now on. Anyways, That's the end of my long stressfull adventure Last edited by spazchicken; 05-24-2007 at 12:19 PM.

06-01-2007, 06:47 AM	#48
Wanting2BAMom Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4	Similar symptoms, what's going on... I am having a similar situation. I had a miscarriage last year (May to be exact) after having tried with my husband, "felt pregnant", take two negative HPT and then a positive HPT. I miscarried two days later (cramping and what I believe to be the actual "detachment" day after and expultion next day). Now, I was 3 weeks late on my period which is usually like clockwork, didn't really feel pregnant except for a little naseau and aroma sensitivity, took three tests (each 1 week apart) and were all negative. Had about a week of lite brownish spotting, (if you want to even call it that), as I had before. Yesterday had a little cramping and then lastnight brown and red starting of bleeding. This morning I am tired because I have been up with severe cramping to where it is making me naseautious, extreme lower back pain and more of a pinkish bleeding. My husband and I had been trying again to get pregnant. I am not sure if this was just an abnormal period (which is not typical but I am 33) or the egg could have been fertilized and never really grown to produce the hormone levels detectable by HPTs. I haven't had the expultion in one fell swoop (as to not be so graphic) as I did last time so I am really confused. Like I said, it's only happened the two times my husband and I were trying to get pregnant. Could this be another miscarriage? Could something be wrong with our compatibility to produce? Or is something wrong with me (i.e. ovarian cysts, endometriosis, PID?) I called the doctor yesterday before any bleeding and they couldn't see me until June 20th. I was talking about doing an internal sonogram to look at my cervix, uterus, etc. I had an annual exam May 14 and the PAP results were good. Anyone else have a similar situation or know what might be going on? THANKS!

06-01-2007, 09:49 PM	#49
karatemom Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5	Happy to hear others are in my boat Okay, I went off of the pill in November b/c I wanted to get ready to start trying to get pregnant and knew it would take time for my cycle to regulate once I went off. Right away my breasts were soooo sore, but were less so with each cycle. My next cycle was 29 days, then 37, 31, 32, now I am on day 40 (Day 1 was April 20). I have taken three tests in the last 12 days all negative. Right now I have been gaining weight, am bloated, think my breasts are getting bigger and my nipples seem bigger and slightly darker, but they haven't felt sore at all. Even though I have been getting my period over the last few months I have felt very full since my 37 day cycle and my skin has been terrible, but now that I am late my skin is clearing and my appetite is back. I would be fine if I got my period, or a positive pregnancy test, but not having either is making me worry that I am having other health issues, which I know I shouldn't since it hear it is normal to skip every so often, but this wait is killing me. I have a doctors appointment June 13th, hopefully it will come by then if not I hope she can alleviate my fears.

05-22-2007, 12:42 PM	#43
nessy123 Junior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Leeds Posts: 2	I am am new to this as well, I have been trying for two months now and nothing as yet, although i was due on my period yesterday. I am normally like clockwork but i have not yet started my period, i have stomach cramps but not like period pains they are lighter. And some seem more in my lower rib cage then in my womb. Im not sure what this means and i was also feeling sick, and dizzy today which is notthe normfor me... Can anyone please help.

05-27-2007, 12:57 PM	#47
gemdews85 Junior Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: in live in the uk Posts: 4	hey i think you could be pregnant im having the excat same problem no period for two months, my tummy looks pregnant am feeling sick tired and moody but my pregnancy test was negative and my scan was normal

06-07-2007, 02:24 PM	#50
bgoins21 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 5	Almost 3 weeks late MY last period was April 22 i have toke home test all neg what the the doctor last thursday for blood test it was neg still no period, going to the bath room alot, some stomach pains trying to get pregnant, I have a 20 month old and the only symptoms with him was urinate more, this time I am urinating more some nausea, feeling tired. Please help what should I do.

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