So many emotions!!!!!

**starjoy08** · 06-09-2010 12:48 PM

I found out I was pregnant over a month ago. This was really a bad time for my husband. My husband is completing a PhD program and I just graduated but still have no job. A week ago we decided to have an abortion. At the time I think it was a good idea or the smart idea for us. Now that it is over, I am very sad and upset. I know that having a baby right now is a bad time for having a baby but I am sad. I have always supported women right to choice. My husband says he can't talk about it, he was excited about having a baby but understood. I don't know what to do, I am sad and cant talk to the one person I want to about it. Any advice????????? It just hurt to think that I am not going to have a baby

**LanaBear** · 06-09-2010 01:01 PM

Sweetie... It will take some time, maybe a lot of time, it does get easier over time though. You both need to grieve and come to terms with it. The important thing is not to let this come between the two of you. Give him some time to come to terms with it himself, he may just need to absorb what happened. It would be easier if the two of you could talk, but, if he just can't right now, there is not much that can be done.

You did what was right for the both of you, you both came to the decision. When the time is right, it will happen again.

Hang in there.