Sex after an abortion :(

**crashiscoming** · 08-31-2010 09:05 PM

Hi..
I had an abortion 2 days ago.. However I had to break up with my boyfriend adn we needed last sex.. I was bleeding but we didnt care..Its fullish i know :/ we didnt protected.. We did just one time.. so my question is what is the possibility of my pregnancy .. ?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-31-2010 09:25 PM

I am sorry for the loss, but can we ask why you broke up and why you felt to have sex for the last time, and why you didn't use protection?

Abortions, are not something you can keep doing over and over...

Also, it's not good for your body to have sex straight after... I doubt your pregnant.

**crashiscoming** · 08-31-2010 09:35 PM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

I am sorry for the loss, but can we ask why you broke up and why you felt to have sex for the last time, and why you didn't use protection?

Abortions, are not something you can keep doing over and over...

Also, it's not good for your body to have sex straight after... I doubt your pregnant.

Because it was so sad to break up .. and our emotions told us to have sex.. anyway i know it was dangerous but how can i be pregnant? It is two days after abortion and i was bleeding... i talked with some doctors and they didnt give a possibility but i needed to learn more and more.. So what is the reason for you ?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-31-2010 11:44 PM

I know you only came here to ask if you could be pregnant again.. But i seriously, seriously doubt it, after having an abortion two days earlier. It's normal to bleed after having an abortion for a while as well..

To learn more, to me would be not having 20 people say "i doubt it" because that is all we can say to you.. It would be to protect yourself from now on, against the future...

You mention emotions... How are you coping with the abortion? Was your boyfriend the Father? Did you have the abortion because you wanted to or because he suggested it? Is this why you both broke up as well? You can use condoms, go on birth control, to be safe, he doesn't have to leave you ... and, it does take two people not one.

I'm more curious to know your okay with all of this.

CW

**sourpuss** · 09-01-2010 10:54 AM

I'm worried as well. It doesn't sound like you're handling it well.

I will say though, if you had the surgical procedure, I would think that there is a possibility whether you were bleeding or not. You cervix is probably still a bit dialated and that can make it easier for the sperm to get where it needs to go and it can live up to 5 days in your body.