My boyfriend wants to get me pregnat.... and I'm only 17 !
He makes alot of money, and I love him. Is it a bad idea? The baby would be born after I graduate. I cant talk to my parents about it because we are going to say it was unplanned. HELP!
What?! Why? I'm sorry, that's ridiculous. If he loves you and wants to have a child, then he'll use his head and think about what is best for all involved. You haven't even BEGUN to live your life. What about living on your own for a while? College? A career? Does any of this matter to him?
Please, for your sake and the sake of a future baby, do not do this.
Who cares about the money and the love... Do YOU want to be pregnant at 17? Do you want to have a child BEFORE you graduate? What are your plans for your life? Do you want to be responsible for a baby? What are the future plans for the relationship? How long have you been together? Why does he want you to get pregnant?
Insantiy, IMO.
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Remember, it's your life, your body..Originally Posted by Fansea
It sounds to me, with the word HELP and the suggestion of "lying to your parents" your not ready, or happy with this decision.
Why not suggest to him that you wish to graduate first, and then you both can talk about it then...
Use protection, or ensure your on birth control...
If your boyfriend gets angry and makes you feel you are wrong in this decision, then he's controlling and you have to take a few steps back and think about that.
He should clearly understand, you want to at least graduate and accept that...
This buys you some time to really think things through doesn't it?
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
How old is he?
How do you define a lot of money?
What do you want for your future?
Do you want to be dependant? Raising a child while your friends are in college, building careers, having fun?
IF he loves you, he will want to see you doing what will make your life the best it can be and that means education and life experience before you settle down.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
your body&life cant be measured with money. having a baby so young can be complicated. i had a baby when i was 17 too. looking back i wish i thought about it before but of course i dont regret my baby girl not one bit because shes my world. you need to think about stuff like school,your social life,family and other stuff. when youre going out with your boyfriend you are going out with his whole family. if his family is nice thats good but if they are complicated people who just want to make your life a living than i think you should rethink this. and besides if your boyfriend loves you he will wait and not rush you. give yourself some time to think about it. no rush at all youre still young. good luck
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