Thread: month 5, still not preggers.

My husband and i have been trying for months now to conceive. I know this may sound silly.. but is there something I'm doing wrong. Some age old trick I"m missing out on? I know my cycle has been a bit iffy since i went off the RING.... a year ago. I have quite a few cysts on one of my ovaries and i think it is pretty high and hidden up there as well. but the obg said it was normal.. at the time i wasn't interested in starting medical steps to conceiving, and they didn't say it would be a necessity. however now i am starting to worry. I am finding it hard to calculate my fertility and am becoming anxious yet again bc i am a week late again and negative test.. so I"m guessing I"m just off of the cycle again. this is so disappointing...
any tips hints or thoughts
thanks

That's the problem with birth control, sometimes when you come off it, it doesn't let you get pregnant right away. Nature has a way about it, doesn't it? Have you ever tried natural family planning? It helps couples achieve and avoid pregancy. Two of my sisters are currently using it to achieve pregnancy. Both have been open to pregnancy since each got married last year. It allows them find out the days when they're most fertile by tracking their temperatures and mucus. It's an accurate system so that you know what days are best for intercourse. My wife and I, for medical reasons, are using NFP to avoid pregancy for the short term. We abstain from sex during my wife's most fertile days, and have sex during the non-fertile days.