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    Hi my names Julia, and ive recentlty misscarried about 3 days ago. Iknow my body needs rest, which i plan on giving it. But I go to my gyn today and im scarred to see what they say about my question. So here goes. Question1 How long until i can conceive again. 2 What are my chances of miscarrying again and 3. If i do get prego again should i just do constant bed rest for the first trimester. Thanks for all your help and support. You guys are like mt family on here.

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    heyya
    they told my friend to wait 6 months (had a miscarriage with her second child)
    sorry for your loss...
    i dont think constant bed rest is the answer - but i guess ur dr needs to answer that....
    sometimes unfortunatly miscarriages are just your body's way of dealing with something that isnt working...
    many people miscarriage and then have many healthy pregnancys

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    im sorry to hear about your loss, i had a miscariage at 5 weeks. i would agree with jessie its will be healthier to way like 6 month to give your body time to rebuild itself, but one thing i realised after my miscariage was i was very stressed , didn't eat properly due to stress, its was the summer didnt have A/C in my car all that heat was not good for the fetus. all those factor placed me at very high risk to miscarry. avoid all the above mistake i made, focus on your happiness and your child above all stay calm ,the rest nature will take care of it. thats what i will do next.

    besst of lucks to you.

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    I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks, and I read online and talked to my friend's mom who is a nurse and you should wait at least 6 months before trying again.1 out 4 pregnancies end in miscarriages for females, and the second pregnancies usually last the full term. You defninitly want to wait until your period is back to normal before trying to conceive, I know that I thought every little thing meant I was pregnant again, but I am not pregnant and am taking care of myself before I try again.

    I am sorry for your loss. I am still learning and trying to get over my miscarriage. Best of luck

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    hi sorry to hear about that i know how your feeling. the doctor told me to wait six months before i ttc. your chances of miscarrying again r quite slim the doctor told me that first time pregnancies can end in miscarriage due to the body not coping with it. no your next pregnancy you should just try not to get stressed out and keep relaxed avoid smoking and being near any1 who smokes. i tried to stay relaxed and i even stayed off work until i miscarried as i had a stressful job. good luck xx

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    I'm sorry to hear about your loss....I also had a miscarriage with my 2nd pregnancy I was about 12 weeks along when we found out our baby's heart stopped beating. I had surgery following the miscarriage because my uterus stayed "open" so I was hemorrhaging badly, after a few blood transfusions and a couple of days in the hospital I was back at home....Anyhow I was very open with my doctor after the miscarriage and I asked how soon I could try again considering the surgery and all...surprisingly he said 6-8 weeks. As far as bed rest on your next try.... I don't think its necessary unless your doctor says you should. Good luck don't be discouraged.....My husband and I were pregnant 10 weeks later and my daughter is now 8 years old. :0)

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    I am very sorry for your loss. I just recently went through the same thing. I was about 5 weeks along, had just gotten a faint positive EHPT and a positive from my doctor. I cramped up really badly about 5 days ago and started bleeding... It is not a good feeling... I hadn't even told my BF that I was pregnant, and now I don't want to because I lost it. It might have been only a few weeks along but it was still my baby you know? Having a bit of emotional roller coaster and it is freaking my man out...

    Sorry to vent on your thread. But I am happy you were able to get some wonderful advise from these awesome people.

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