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  1. 12-30-2010 01:26 AM #1
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    so after talking it over & giving it serious thought, me & the hubby wanna try for a baby (that is if i am not already pregnant, i will know for sure in a couple of days).
    i took my patch off on monday (27th) as scheduled for my one week off. but i plan to leave it off from now on. we r hoping to get pregnant fairly soon (i have read it can take time) as we r hoping for me to give birth b4 dec 2011. so is it stupid of me to try & get pregnant soon since i just took my patch off? by soon i mean within the month or so. i have read that it could b harmful to the baby if i don't give my body time after removing the patch, is that true? i certainly don't wanna harm the baby. i don't wanna have to wait 3 months to get pregnant, as we would like to have the baby while my husband is still enlisted, which could possible end in January 2012 if he doesn't re-up. thoughts on getting pregnant within the month after coming off of birth control?
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    Did you read that on the internet? Or your Doctor told you this?

    People read things on the internet and get confused, you have to be so careful with what you read..

    I know you don't want this answer but you need to ask this of your Doctor...

    What I can tell you is stressing for the exact date, will mean your just having sex...to have a baby, that can destroy your intimacy together as well as that chance....To me what brings on a baby, is, that deep love therefore, connection, therefore, love and connection and ultimate orgasm...

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    yeah, i am going to call tomorrow to make an appointment hopefully.
    on the sex versus intimacy, i'm not a wham bam kinda person in honest, i love sex but can only truly do the deed if my heart is in it. if my emotions r not there then the sex doesn't happen, i just can't do it for physical & mental reasons. weird & sounds impossible but true. so it wouldn't b out of efforts but out of love.
    the date is important & i just want things to b planned out so i can see them b4 i do them, if that makes senses (i'm very much a person that likes to lay a plan & consider all aspects b4 jumping in head first). if it just doesn't work out b4 the end of 2011, i will wait till we get settled in texas or alaska & then figure a plan again. this is something we truly want but we r trying to do wat is best for us as a family.
    on friday (i'm going to pick up a few books to read up about pregnancy
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    i should say that yes, sex (not intimacy) has happened between me & my husband but it was only because sex hurt so i cut him off for like a month & i felt bad so we had sex, but i was crying in pain. he felt horrible & made me promise that we would never make love if it hurt. i agreed......sex hurts wen i'm not in the mood (i just don't get wet), making love doesn't hurt
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    ok so i talked to my doc, we r clear to make a bundle of joy.
    i'm excited for this & so is aaron. we r going to take it day by day, not forcing it, only when we are in the mood to make love
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