Thread: Lost and dont know what to do

I got pregnant by a man who had a girlfriend and i also was messing around with another man who is currently my boyfriend ,The man with the girlfriend told me that he wasn't leaving his girlfriend for me and that he would be here for the baby but i fell in love with him . but i also loved my new boyfriend I was pregnant with twins and i had an abortion . and we went our separate ways im with my boyfriend now and he is currently with his girlfriend . i recently went to the doctor and found out i still could be pregnant. is that even possible ? i dont know how to tell my boyfriend and i told the other man and he is really upset . what should i do?

Tough situation at best, I'm a guy, but don't hold that against me please. The first thing I would do if I were in your shoes, I'd end all the relationships until I had time to think this all through. BF's with other GF's, not a good idea in my opinion. If a man will give you attention while dating someone else, he will see someone else while dating you. You need to find a guy that you truly love and he loves you just as much. The pregnancy, you will have to get another female's advice on that one. Find a guy who loves you for being you, not for what you can offer. This is a tough situation, I know. Can you talk to your Mom or a close female friend who is older than you? She might have some sage advice that will help you through this. I hope you can find some answers and wish you nothing but good luck. If nothing else, maybe find a female counselor to answer your questions and maybe ease your mind a bit. My little sister was in your shoes about 20 years ago. She dated a guy but another caught her eye and she got pregnant by the other guy. He didn't step up to the plate and be the man he should have been. She ended up talking to a counselor who helped her through it all. Today, she has been married for 15 years to a man who is a great husband and a great father.
Someone on here might be able to give you more advice than I can and I hope I helped if just a little bit. I wish nothing but good luck to you.