abortion grief
hi i was 10 - 11 weeks pregnant when i had to make the hardest dicision to have a D&C, there was a few reasons why including my ex's past that i didnt know about intill after the intercourse, i seem to be very cut up about this and cope i need help to sort this situation
Do you have anybody you can talk to? A counselor or someone...
It is a hard decision but it is important not to beat yourself up over it. It is very common to grieve/mourn over what happened. Allow yourself to do this. The important thing is that you don't keep all these emotions and grief bottled up because it can eat your alive.
Friendship Prayer
May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch.
Amen
Whoever said anything was possible obviously never tried slamming a revolving door.
If it helps at all I just want to say that I am pro abortion, I completely agree with the right to terminate a pregnancy when there are good reasons, and sounds like you made a decision that was right for you and for the people in your life.
You will have plenty of chance to have a baby in the future, if you want to, when everything falls into place and you're able to create a good environment for a child.
I agree with Lana, let your grief out, don't bottle it up.But I hope you can also distinguish between YOUR grief and the grief that society may have convinced you you should feel...
At my university there was once a fundamentalist Christian group standing around saying terrible things about women, abortion, sex, etc, and there was one brave girl standing beside them with a simple sign that said, "I had an abortion and I'm okay."
We're here for you hon.
my mum and dad mentaly ill and dont have a bond i cant seem to give em a simple kiss on cheek or a hug but i can do that with a lady i know its horrible, dunno what to do plus i was surpose to have a cancelleer ring me up a month ago but she didnt ring grrrrrr
Bonnie,
You gave your baby back to God so that God could give it to another mom who was ready and wanting. I'm having my own abortion soon and I plan on planting a tree for my baby so that I can honor that spirit in a different way. I don't want to ever forget about the life I ended but I do firmly believe that some "future" children are better off going back to heaven or being re-born to another individual than being made to submit to a life where one or both parents do not want them. Adoption is not a guarantee that your baby will have a wonderful life either or always be wanted and appreciated. And that is unfortunate but it is the truth.
I'm sorry for your loss and I know it is hard to find the positive in such a negative experience but you must try.
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