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    Me and my fiance been having unprotected sex in hopes of haveing a baby, we've been having unprotected sex all of last month. ive been having pregnacy symtoms . but false test and now i have my period, can anyone help we wanna have kids

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    How old are you? My best bet is for you to be checked by an OB-GYN and have her help you map out your whole cycle and ovulation period.
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    It takes time, for many couples. Many, many months. Chart your BBT every morning and figure out when you are ovulating, and focus on having sex during that time.

    Please read up on ovulation, fertility, chances of falling pregnant, etc. Educating oneself on this matter can save a lot of frustration and money down the road.

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    my period is misleading, I cant never make track of it. so idk when i am in my fertile days. i have tried almost everything i been to a gyno to he says am perfectly fine, i just dont know what to do.

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    Keep trying then. Why are you feeling hopeless this quickly?

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    My advise, Stop trying and start having fun. My husband and i were trying all kinds of things lol at one point i was stuffing pillows under my butt for 20 min. But every month my period came and i was SO disappointed!! But we decided that wasnt how you make a baby, you need to make love to make a baby! Now im 8 weeks and praying for my little shrimp to hang in here!! My baby wasnt an accident but was a surprise and i wouldnt want it any other way! It will happen but as i learned you have to wait for your body to decide!
    Good Luck have fun and enjoy!

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    A happy orgasmic cervix dips down into the pool of semen and transports some of it into the uterus where the sperm can continue their journey. At least that is what some scientists think happens. Go to the wiki on [calendar based contraceptive methods] and work it backwards to determine when it is best to have sex. Remember sperm can live 5 days or more in the uterus. and your ova is good for somewhere between 24 and 48 hours. Mes T gave some other things to do.
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    After one month, there's no need to be so defeated love... I was pregnant 7 years ago. I didn't plan it but I remember the night it happened. I wasn't thinking about a child, I hadn't had a normal period, and it was a very good, relaxing night if you know what I mean.
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