Pregnant or not?

**captain Lej** · 06-26-2011 09:56 PM

So my boyfriend swears I'm pregnant because I gained 8 pounds this weekend. I think I'm just close to my period and because I just ate out all weekend. So could anyone convince my boyfriend other wise because I can't be if I haven't shown any other signs besides feeling slightly sick every day or random cravings for pickles or cheese fries or something like that. Thank you! (Ps not sure if this is where it really goes if not sorry!)

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 06-26-2011 11:19 PM

Well mam that's just not quite enough information for us to give an opinion

Like, when did you last have your period, are you on the pill, or does he use a condom, are your periods usually regular or all over the place.....and do you usually pig out and fluctuate in weight .....

Cravings, feeling sick every day are signs of pregnancy as is gaining rapid weight.

Why don't you go to the chemist and do a home pregnancy test, that will solve the riddle once and for all and if not follow through with a blood test....

**captain Lej** · 06-27-2011 04:54 PM

Last month was my last period, and they are everywhere thanks to the depo shot, but I got off it last november and haven't been on anything and no he doesn't use a condom because well I don't get anything from when he does and this weekend I did so that's why I know I'm not pregnant he jsut has this whole hopeful wishing.

Friday I didn't eat until I got to his house and I had sonic, saturday didn't eat until he took me out for montana mikes for our big date and I munched on that all sunday and also had sonic Sunday night so I pigged out and really I only gain a lot of wieght if I'm close to my period.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 06-27-2011 06:20 PM

You know I have to stick to my last comment, pregnancy test and if that doesn't work blood test.

Even if you "don't get anything from when he does it", it only takes one little swimmer and that little swimmer can find it's way inside through various methods..

I gather "he" doesn't like condoms or is it both of you and if you were pregnant given he is wishing this, how are you on the subject?

Sonic, Montana Mikes, burgers, chips, chilli all those things can give you gas, up-set your stomach and bloat it out, let alone you gaining weight from like 30grms of fat per burger which is more than a woman's daily intake should be....

We can not advise you if you are or not, it's not possible not even maybe because, .... your periods are everywhere, you are not on birth control, you don't use condoms, it WILL happen as you are young and therefore more than likely very fertile if you don't want to be, I suggest you find some other method of birth control that you are happy with and now, because otherwise,the next Thread, irrespective of this result will say I AM PREGNANT

**captain Lej** · 06-27-2011 06:44 PM

Actually he's my fiance and we want a baby and well I need to talk to a doctor to even see if I can have kids because we haven't even really wore a comdom but like twice since we started having sex. But I really just think I ate to much junk and he's just crazy lol. But thanks anyway, a test will have to wait when I get money I'm broke!

**BabyGirl** · 06-27-2011 07:05 PM

Originally Posted by captain Lej

Actually he's my fiance and we want a baby and well I need to talk to a doctor to even see if I can have kids because we haven't even really wore a comdom but like twice since we started having sex. But I really just think I ate to much junk and he's just crazy lol. But thanks anyway, a test will have to wait when I get money I'm broke!

*Note * Your post was Posted before I responded with the one above. **

There Are Free Clinics to take a Test .. Broke or Not, they will do the test for free and put you on Birth Control or give you free condoms.

**captain Lej** · 06-27-2011 07:20 PM

I wont take his money, I'm really wierd like that, I'm getting use to it but it's hard when I want to pay for some of my own stuff like a test or food.

(Ps, he makes like 11.50 an hour, he has to pay for 390 a month rent, plus feed his brother, plus car payment, insurance, cell phone and paying off the camper he's living in so he really needs his money. lol I'm rent free, but still paying for cell phone and insurance.

**captain Lej** · 06-27-2011 08:37 PM

If I had the money and time off from work I would but seeing as work only relys on me I can't seem to even get enough time to use the bathroom. I'd rather go to the doctor anyway to take a blood test because it's better results. I've take pregnacy tests before and everytime negative so I assume I'm not because One I was on the depo shot and everyone I've talked to haven't gotten pregnant until a few years after their last shot. Two, I don't think I can get pregnant I don't believe I'm fertile or whatever.

All I can say is I can try to go find a place that does free test or save money for a doctor but right now please don't judge me because I say I don't have money, I didn't even think I was pregnant, I just thought I got fat from eating junk all weekend, plus I didn't say tell me I said convience my boyfriend and I've already done that after I typed this and I don't know how to delete threads.

**captain Lej** · 06-27-2011 08:43 PM

I'm 20 and we're getting married, I'm working and he's working, we work at the same place, and really we don't have ten thousand dollars at the moment. We're aiming for renting at the moment and we're very much trying to make sure we have a home for our child if we have a child.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 06-28-2011 04:29 PM

Hun, Mother type figures huh

The only real thing you need to bring a baby into this world is love and support....In the oldern days there wasn't any money either, people resorted to what ever they had to, my own Grandmother worked part time to raise 5 children and my own Mother went without meat so we could eat meat...It's a way of life, we aren't all blessed with riches and in today's society, it's difficult because the Government does not allow our wages to meet our expenses in reality.

Then there is support from family hand me downs...You both work, and so you both contribute, if ever you can save $20 a week, do it, because there will always be lifes un-expected, once upon a time I was an Insurance Salesperson, I would plan people's budgets

But as for 10,000 dollars can I have that? That's my monthly expenses for my business and that's darn hard work to keep going

Well, you know that a blood test is the only answer and that a pregnancy test will tell you almost accurately if it was negative before that's because you weren't pregnant, can't hurt to get another one if you want to know...

Otherwise, if you are engaged or planning on getting married and want a child, as long as one wage can at least pay for the things you listed, and you could perhaps work part time at least you'll make it....

You can't delete threads here hun, and it's nice to see you post another thread since joining in October, if someone is "off topic" sometimes it's because they can't help acting as a "Mom" but if it's off topic and perhaps in the fashion that it was, it will be deleted, not your thread....

Let us know if you are or not as you establish same....

But honestly, if you both can cough up $10 a week, do it and open a bank account for emergencies, as they do happen