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    My husband is 37. He takes no drugs and he doesn't drink. He is in perfect health. He is always working out especially jogging. He doesn't masturbate at all. He doesn't care for shelf pleasure at all. All his orgasms come from my vagina, mouth, or hand.

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    Sounds like he may have low testosterone levels. This can be serious and effects far more than just your sex life. Insist he get in to have it checked. If he is likely to resist just make the appointment, tell them he has no sex drive and tell him when he has to be there. This could indicate some serious health concerns.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tara43 View Post
    My husband is 37. He takes no drugs and he doesn't drink. He is in perfect health. He is always working out especially jogging. He doesn't masturbate at all. He doesn't care for shelf pleasure at all. All his orgasms come from my vagina, mouth, or hand.
    If you are accurate on him never masturbating, and he's only wanting sex twice a month.. he very might well likely have some sort of health condition or low testosterone. He's got energy to exercise so it doesn't sound like a blood flow issue (but I am not doctor!) The average healthy man has a biological need to release more than 2 times in a month...you'd think he'd be having nocturnal emissions or something going THAT long without release. Also him releasing that infrequently will REDUCE your chance at having a baby when you do have sex. I am pretty sure I've read that newer sperm is more vital than sperm thats been sitting around a long time.
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    Agree with Hopeless Dork. A normal, healthy man, especially one who works out so much, should have more than 2 orgasms per month at age 37.

    Personally, I am always suspicious of men who put more effort into working their own bodies than into working their women's bodies. Bodybuilders, runners, bikers, those obsessive guys...something narcissistic it seems to me. Caring more about themselves than their partners.

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