I'm only 16 and very nervous

**anxietyismymiddlename** · 08-21-2011 07:04 AM

Hey yall um this is my first time ever righting on here but, my boyfriend and i , we have never had sex and i am still nervous im pregnant. I have let him finger me and ive given him a handjob but not on the same day. I guess what im trying to say is i have bad anxiety and im nervous, i look up pregnancy symptoms and then i start getting paranoid thinking i have them. I'm not sure if im getting my period but my boobs have grown a little and i am having diherria, also i have had lower back cramps and got this weird brown discharge i havent missed a period yet but i think with all this anxiety i might also i dont have food cravings, morning sickness, or any of that. Help if anyone can i just need some reassuring words from the wise, im just confused kid.

**Darling** · 08-21-2011 08:52 AM

Honey i highly doubt there is any chance that you are pregnant. Seriously you have to have SEX to have a baby

Your sixteen your body is still growing, your probably due for you period which is causing cramps bigger boobs and the discharge. If your this worried wait until your older until you practice sexual intimacies.

**rosekitten** · 08-21-2011 10:40 AM

I have to second Darling. Fingering and hand jobs do not a baby make. The only way it could have possibly is if, say, you gave him a hand job, and then scooped his seamen into your vagina. When semen meets egg, you get babies. So, unless that happens, you'll be fine.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 08-29-2011 06:55 AM

You are not pregnant. It's good to be concerned and nervous about getting pregnant, because it's certainly not something you want at such a young age.

It's very important to learn about your body and sexual reproduction before engaging in sexual behavior. The reason it's important is so you know what is safe and what is not safe, and what precautions to take.

If you are about two weeks away from your period, then you are most likely ovulating which explains the cervical fluid (rather than discharge) and sore breasts. If you are due for your period, then what you are experiencing is probably just some pms and a little spotting.