Pregnant.. Or Paranoid from Having Sex for the First time? PLEASE HELP!
So heres the story (please read all):
Me and my boyfriend had sex on July 31st (It was both our first time) And again on August 1st.
I am on birthcontrol, and have been for over a year because of hormone problems.
I never missed any pills this month and took them all at 4pm but i think i was 30-60 minutes late on 2 or 3 pills. Tho last month i missed 5 pills... But we never did anything sexual last month..
When we had sex we used a condom, we used condoms both times, and im pretty sure they didnt rip. (how can u tell?)
Both times he never ejaculated in me or in the condom, we stopped before he did, but there may have been pre *** in the condom.
So I'm not sure if some people know this but when your on birth control you have a week where you take inactive pills (Placebo Pills) and during that week your supposed to get your period.
I got some bleeding on that inactive week when i started my last Placebo Pill..
I was supposed to start a new pack after that 7th placebo pill but i got bleeding on that day so i thought i'd wait a week to start it just to see if the bleeding got heavier, which it seemed to do
So , At first it was a light reddish/pink, i had really bad cramps then through out the day it seemed to get heavier...
I bled for a total of 5 days... my periods are usually light (due to the pill) and this bleeding seemed to be alittle heavier and it lasted longer.. ( Like how my period was before i went on the pill)
One day i forgot to use a tampon and when i went to the washroom my underwear was covered in blood...
Through out these 5 days i had really bad cramping..
I heard about implantation bleeding.. and that it started a week before your period is due...
Well this bleeding happened the time i was supposed to get my period...it was just later in that week it seemed.
I'm all confused now, Was that my period? or could it have been implantation bleeding?
After i stopped bleeding i took 2 pregnancy tests, i took them both when i woke up (on different days) and they both came out negative..
I'm just confused about this whole situation.
Could I be pregnant?
Do you think i am?
Okay you're on the pill, you used a condom, AND he didn't ejaculate. I think there's a higher chance of you getting hit by lighting tomorrow than you being pregnant. Sperm aren't super-human. Usually just the pill by itself is more than enough to stop them. But in your case they never even left your boyfriend's penis, so I'm pretty confident you can relax. For future, it might help to have a read up on pregnancy statistics when using various methods, and statistics when these methods are combined (like in your case).
I'm confused about how you took the pill, though. Yes you are supposed to have 7 days of inactive pills, but whether or not your period comes then doesn't matter. You MUST continue on to the next pack. Please read the instructions carefully, and don't mess around with these pills when you are not sure. Ask a health professional, or read what is written on the packet. When I was on birth control, I'd often get my periods at the beginning of the "active" pills anyway. It sounds like you missing 5 pills the month before has confused your body a little bit, so it's no surprise your period was late this month.
Please be responsible with these pills and take them *exactly* as directed. We are dealing with hormones here, no small matter.
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