How to get him to feel more included in the pregnancy?

- Take him to dr.'s appointments.
- Take him to ultrasounds and ask the tech if HE can move the wand around on your belly.
- Get a small pic of the most recent ultrasound that he can carry is his wallet.
- Ask him to share his "gift of calm" the next time your baby is active. Put your hand on top of his...bond together!
- Remind him how much you love him and how blessed/fortunate you feel to be carrying his child, etc.
- Express your love for him however you normally do...frequently...As he should be doing for you.

- Remember/understand that his mind is full of things too. Sounds like one of his biggest concerns is not to screw it up (again).

This is a beautiful and amazing time to be shared and enjoyed by both of you. Do what you can to help him with that, as I hope that he does the same for you.