Thread: weird sex dreams!

I have checked for yoga classes for pregnancy, and didn't find any here :c
I was a swimmer before I moved and I havnt found a good pool either, I am resorting to walks and stretches. I do have the okay for exercise! I just need to find some. The best exercise so far is in bed, and that also seems to help with the weird sex dreams

Originally Posted by Darling

I have checked for yoga classes for pregnancy, and didn't find any here :c
I was a swimmer before I moved and I havnt found a good pool either, I am resorting to walks and stretches. I do have the okay for exercise! I just need to find some. The best exercise so far is in bed, and that also seems to help with the weird sex dreams

Bummer! Find yourself a pregnancy yoga DVD online and have it delivered, woman! LOL. I know it's hard to relocate and not find what you need in your new area. That's where I'm at right now. I'm glad I have WH to turn to when I go crazy.

Okay so last nights dream was the worst yet, I was going home for Christmas and when I got there my dad looked very worried and needed to talk to me, be said that my mother has been talking to my cousin, and they decided it was time to mend the relationship due to me being pregnant, that I didn't need to be upset any more. ( he sexually abused me for many years)
I was so upset I was trying to tell my mother that there was never going to be a relationship between us. Well some how he shows up in my dream and wants to talk, saying his apology ... Again the one he said before he tried to rap me a few years ago...
I new what was coming and I started screaming but no one could hear me we were in my old room like before. I kept saying that he would have nothing to do with me, he will never see my child!
I woke up and my throat hurt so bad I could barely swallow. Nothing sexual happend. I just remembered in my dream what he did and I had to make myself heard. That he would never touch me or my child!

Oh my goodness these dreams are really becoming nightmares!

You're becoming responsible for a little man, who you won't always be able to directly protect - your subconscious is working that out. The bad things that happened to you as a child could possibly happen to him, which is terrifying by any means!
There's also this idea in our culture that mommies have to be all nicey-nice, and submit themselves to the scathing criticism of everyone around us - strangers and all. For instance, how often do you take stupid advice from a random Grandma at Walmart with a polite nod and smile instead of telling her where to stuff it? With all this social pressure on you (and sadly, if it hasn't started yet, just wait until you're really showing,) it's not a large leap for your subconscious to think of family and the "unbreakable" bond of blood. The expectation of Jacob's nicey-nice mommy can't compete with bearcub Jacob's fierce protecting mommy, and your brain has to dump it.

Maybe you could do some assertions before bed? Say aloud that you will dream of positive things. Tell yourself you will not allow your dreams to go out of control and scare you. Tell yourself to dream of fluffy bunnies, or anything really other than the issues you're dreaming up! You might try it in the mirror. This is supposed to REALLY work, though I can't say I've tried it.

Haahaa now I'm going to start talking to myself
That sounds like a good idea after I have real bad dreams I pray to god to keep us safe and to take away all negativity and bad dreams. Why not try it before I sleep

And I think your right about the nicey nice, I refuse to be told how I should act or feel. And I've been pushed down so much when i was younger that now I try my hardest to be hear and strong. I felt like in my dream he was taking cintrol if me. But I refused to let it happen. I want my son to grow up strong! And not afraid to speak up.

Good grief,
Last nights dream. I was being pleasured by one of my friends from work. While he was pleasing me all I could think about was that my husband was in the next room with our friend. And get this I hoped they were doing it to! Bc in my dream I felt guilty for being in bed with another man and thought it would be okay if they were doing it too... Goodness I need to start weighting these down and make a soap opra!

You need to talk to a counselor, seriously. If these dreams are bothering you that much.

At this point I'm no longer bothered, I do find them truly comical.