Thread: weird sex dreams!

I don't think that you should be guilty with your dreams. There are a bunch of reasons why we dream what we dream - some are because of pent-up emotions, others, just completely random. Believe me, when I dream whether it be sexual or not, I moan or talk for real and my hubby hears it and tells me the next day and we laugh about it. I even dream stroking his naughty bit and 90% of the time, I end up actually doing it (according to him) and I am clueless about it. He thinks it's cute.

Darling, you must not worry about it. When you start getting up, walking or saying another man's name is when you should be worried - time to see a psychologist. Right now, I think you're fine.

Well I've been safe from my sex dreams for the past two nights, but they have been filled with freaky zombie dreams, and other weird vivid dreams... Not sure but i think the sex dreams are better.

Yep! What have you been reading or watching lately? Do you have major "stressors" you are not aware of?

Well we watched twilight...
But I didn't dream about vampires!
What do u mean by stressers??

What are the things that stress you? You may or may not be aware of them all. Try to make a list as you feel stressed and include the reason. I'm a list kind of a person. I always collect data whenever I can so that I can arrive at a sound and informed decision for whatever.

Hum I havnt thought about it, I did have a dream the other night that I had my baby, and he looked like a monkey ( I'm scared of monkeys) and I tried to get over my fear, to hold my child, but when I held him he didn't want me he wanted my parents. He cried and hissed and showed Sharp teeth! I was horrified and my mom took him and he snuggled up to her. I was so upset!
I do have a fear of zombie movies, and my husband was talking about a zombie movie yesterday...
My only real stress right now is money and the baby, and being lonely.

Being pregnant in itself is a stressor. There are a million maybes that your mind is cycling through in your sleep. Will your baby like you? Will you be as good of a parent as your parents were? Will your child have a behavioral issue you can't control? How will the birth go? Will you be ready?
And having a baby really cements you to the person you're with. Did you make the right choice?

I had a million crazy dreams while pregnant. I dreamed of exes I didn't even LIKE anymore. Dreamed of dropping the baby, giving birth far from the hospital, you name it. Think of it as trash day for your mind - getting all the junk out for you!

Originally Posted by Darling

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My only real stress right now is money and the baby, and being lonely.

There is such thing as pre partum depression, but I hope you're not there. If you are, it is best to find a counselor. Please do not let them talk you into taking anti-depressants though. Talk therapy is better. Maybe have your hubby with you during the sessions. If you choose not to go to counseling, you can open up to your husband about how you feel and tell him that you are just sharing how you feel at the moment and that all you need is to be heard, then hugged or cuddled/comforted. Most of the time husbands need specific directives like this because with the way they are wired, they automatically wear their "fix it" hat. While for us, women, we are only airing out the laundry and after that, we're fine again.

Regarding money - what are your worries? How stable is your hubby's job? Are you still working? Do you plan to be a stay-at-home mom? I apologize if I am adding more worries right now. I guess I'm just starting your "talk therapy" here. *smiles*