Hey I dying of tension!Please give me a 100% reliable reply!

**Dark_Crazy_Lover** · 01-05-2012 05:40 AM

About a month ago me n my bf were cuddling n um still a virgin...he just tried to penetrate but we didnt have sex. He just pushed once n cudnt completely enter.
Now my period int starting till now!!Um too tensed! My period usually starts with 15-20 days interval but this time its more than a month!
I am having slight pains in my lower belly n I guess I feel too hungry too often. Its my A'level exams ahead...if um pregnant by any chance my parents are gonna kill me as I am from a very conservative family! I am only 18. Its winter now in Bangladesh. Is my period delayed due to changing season.
What is my chance of being pregnant?
How much can I rely on Pregnancy Test Kits?
Is there anything I can do to confirm pregnancy termination without letting parents know?

**Dark_Crazy_Lover** · 01-05-2012 05:48 AM

I forgot to include
We cuddled just one day after my monthly bleeding stopped!

**Beautiful Disaster** · 01-05-2012 06:46 AM

When he tried to penetrate you did he ejaculate?

Your chances of being pregnant based on what you've described here are very very slim. Most likely, you have worried yourself and stressed yourself over this to the point of delaying your ovulation which also delays your period. I'm not sure what stores you have there in Bangladesh, but in the US you could go somewhere like a Dollar Store, pharmacy, walmart or grocery and buy yourself a cheap pregnancy test and then put your mind to ease. They are most often pretty accurate indicators of pregnancy.

Before you start thinking about abortion, first determine whether or not you're even pregnant. And if you're not, consider this a lesson learned that if plan to be sexually active with your boyfriend you need to discuss protection to avoid pregnancy. Good luck!

**Darling** · 01-05-2012 06:48 AM

I doubt your pregnant, your most likely stressing yourself out and making your period late. If you want to know for sure take a test.

**Dark_Crazy_Lover** · 01-05-2012 07:19 AM

he didnt ejaculate but my symptoms...frequent urination, mood swings,lower belly pains and of all why is my menstruation delayed???any clue!! I have exams frm 11th of this month but a cant just concentrate on studys!

**Beautiful Disaster** · 01-05-2012 07:25 AM

You could have a urinary tract infection.

You could just be having a delayed cycle due to stress.

Get yourself a pregnancy test and take it so you can relax and focus on your exams. I do NOT think you're pregnant.

**Krazy_glu3** · 01-15-2012 06:05 PM

You can actually worry yourself into having pregnancy symptoms. I've done it before. I had the side effects, but I was never pregnant. Thats how powerful the mind is. If you THINK you are pregnant, you will show all the signs. Just stop worrying about it. take a test if you are that stressed. I bet when you stop stressing over it, your period will come back. Theres a lot of factors that could cause your period to stop. Sudden drop or weight in gain can mess up your cycle too. I've had that happen to me too. Just relaaaaax.

**Hopeless Dork** · 01-15-2012 06:11 PM

Frequent urination is not a symptom pregnant women feel until way further a long in the pregnancy, same with the increased appetite.. if you were pregnant you'd be way too early off to even feel most (if any) symptoms. You can still get pregnant, even if the guy doesn't ejaculate though the chances are way less. You are at a very fertile time in your life.. you should not have him enter you AT ALL without protection. I'm sure, like the others, that you don't have anything to worry about this time... but do your nerves a favor and take a pregnancy test. If its negetive relax. If you still don't get a period, take another one in a couple weeks (sometimes the pregnancy hormone isn't strong enough to be reflected on early testing). I'm willing to bet its nerves, but no one can give you a reliable answer, only guesses, much like you are doing.

Pregnancy test is the best way to go.