help ,me im freaking out

**kayla101** · 01-14-2012 03:33 AM

So,
ive been seeing this guy for awhile now and we wanted to have sex , but hes huge...
so we tried to have sex tonight but he wouldn't wear a condom so, we tried with out a condom. It was fine he had to make me really wet, so we did it for a bit and he pulled out and he was really wet ..
i asked him if he cumed in me and he was like no , just a little pre cum that's all,
so im asking could i get pregnant if he came in me a little bit ?b

i asked him if he came and hes kept saying idk , idk , idk
And that is freaking me out !!!!!!!!!!
i live no wear near a clinic and im embarrassed to buy a pregnancy test , or buy plan b

**jns** · 01-14-2012 05:26 AM

Pre cum can have enough sperm in it to get a woman pregnant. Did he stay erect for a long time after pulling out? If he did, he may have not ejaculated. What day was the start of your last period? Depending on where you are in your cycle, you may be unlikely to be ovulating or it could be quite possible.

**acerousme** · 01-14-2012 11:27 AM

Hi there. Ive deleted your other post as it only needs to be in once place.

I agree with JNS...can you give us a little more detail please?

**kayla101** · 01-14-2012 02:37 PM

like he was to huge to fit in me,
he stayed in for awhile and he pulled out bcuz it was hurt me so bad , and when he pulled out i was covered in wetness , and it smelt like his cum and he was like i didnt do it.
im like are you going to take me to the clinic and hes like no ,im like i dont want to get pregnant .. hes like i thought it was just a hookup .. I'm like well this is what u get when u dont use a condom .. hes like not my fault . im like yes it is u should of brought something hes like naaa

**Krazy_glu3** · 01-15-2012 05:55 PM

From experience -- Yes you CAN get pregnant that way. And theres a chance hes not telling the truth. I had unprotected sex with my husband. I said 'did you do anything!?' he said 'no I didnt cum inside you.' The next day my gut feeling was saying he was lying. I asked and hes like 'just a little'. So first it was no, now it was 'just a little'. I told him that night to put a condom on and he said no. I said we should really use one and he was like no youll be fine. Anyways, I told him the next day to go out and buy me a plan b pill just in case. He said no because i 'wont get pregnant'. Guess what..... I did get pregnant that night. Of course, it was my fault.... as usual. Next time refuse to have sex without a condom. Or to just be extra careful, bring your own too! It wont make you look like a by carrying a condom, it'll make you SAFE. If you are pregnant you better hunt him down and keep a track of him so you can do a paternity test to prove its him and then get you some child support from him. But before freaking out, make sure you arent or are. We're hoping for a negative, but you can go to Planned Parenthood and check. Or simply walk into your doctors office and ask for them to do a urine test to see if you are pregnant or not. I hope everything works out for you.
and just to make sure you know -- YOU CAN GET PREGNANT ON PRECUM. It just takes ONE sperm. Just one.

**lizzardb63** · 01-16-2012 08:33 AM

Because he is large is no reason to not wear a condom. Trojan makes a Large and XL size condom that first some of the largest men. Always be safe no matter who it is and how much you trust them. As Krazy_glu3 states, it for YOUR safety, get his information now, just in case. If you're 17 years old you can buy the Plan B at any pharmacy without a prescription. I would suggest biting the bullet and going and getting one even if it's embarassing.