Thread: confusion about wanting a baby

Well I'm not too sure if this is the right category to post this thread but i figured I might get responses to help me here too. I am 22 year old and I am in a really loving relationships we have been together for some time now and been living with each other for about the past 2 1/2 years.well like any realtionship we've been through our ups and downs and for the past year or so its been mostly ups. I am probably more in love with my bf than i ever have been with him.. lol i know it sounds corny.. but its true. Anyway in the begining of the relationship we have always mentioned about Never having kids but throught the years i have changed my mind and i let him know that through little harmless jokes. Everytime i bring up the word baby its like i feel real uncomfortable around him because i know he doesnt want any supposibly.. but he continues to give me clues that he does. Well lately i just been really thinking about it really hard... and it seems like everyother day i hear about somebody else being pregnant... it really gets under my skin.. i want to talk about it to anybody but i feel so embaresed . I feel like i am ready even though no one is actually ready to have a baby but .. i think it could just be me being real confused should i just shrug it off . I do have a lot on my plate right now... finances and a new career...but to just shrug it off is kind of easy to say but hardto do in my head.. espeacially with all the new prg announcements around me lol... so what do you women think? should i just get over my wanting to have a baby... and just wait it out lol maybe my bf will turn around or ..hmm.. I dunno ... im not really too sure what im asking ... just any advice would help

<3 thanks ahead of time

Talk to him about it, bring it up bit by bit and hear what he has to say about it. Listen to him carefully to know if hes heading towards wanting a baby in the near future or he still has his mind set on not having any. At some point most of us want kids and you really dont know this until you get older. If you are in a financial situation and just started a new career its best to wait to have a baby but that dont mean you cant talk about it with your bf now, so later on it wont be a problem.