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    Ok as a lot of us know up to a certain point a fetus is pretty much brain dead. It cannot think,hear,speak,feel, or anything, all of its motions are involuntary movements. But IF abortion were what pro lifers say (painful, tortuous, murder) would the feminist be in defense of it? I’m not a feminist but ive read several of their forums and when I read about abortion its always "my body my choice”, “no one is going to tell me what to do with MY life”, “Stay out of MY uterus!" mememememe

    So basically what I’m saying is, do you think women would be so strongly pro choice if a fetus lived in the womb as a conscious human being as we do? And back in the day before we had the technology to know what a fetus was capable of women still had abortions which makes me wonder if anyone even cared what a fetus felt in the first place.

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    do you think women would be so strongly pro choice if a fetus lived in the womb as a conscious human being as we do?
    I am confused. Being a feminist does not mean they are going to automatically be for aborting a fetus. Being a feminist means they want equal and respectful rights for women of which the "my body my choice" comes into play for the mother. Whether that mother believes her fetus has pain or not at a certain gestational period is her choice.
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    Some women are pro choice, others are not. The most important thing is that women do actually have a choice, so far as their decision presides over the fathers because it is HER body. I actually agree with this, although I accept how difficult it must be for both parties in those circumstances.

    What infuriates me is when people discuss the abortion the debate - is the failure of many (especially those gods precious children A-holes) - to consider matters beyond the pregnancy. Like actually raising the ********ing child.

    It's all very well telling woman abortion is wrong etc, but what's the alternative? A possibly vulnerable woman, or one unprepared and ill equipped for parenthood introducing ANOTHER child into a desperately over populated world?

    One of the reasons in life so many people have to make seemingly bad decisions is that often, the only alternative to them is less desirable than the choice they made.

    I personally think it's a shame that the parents of these A-holes who stand outside abortion clinics handing out rubber fetuses to vulnerable and distressed pregnant women (who've had to make quite possibly the most difficult decision of their life) didn't know more about contraception.

    I actually think having a child and neglecting and/or abusing it is a million times more morally repugnant than having an abortion.

    I believe women don't want to have abortions, what they want is to avoid introducing a child into the world they are not (for a multitude of individual reasons) in a position to raise.
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    People have been killing other people, including children of all ages, for thousands of years. No knowledge alone will ever stop that. The baby could speak from the womb and some people would still kill it, because preserving another life is not their concern.

    Also, the planet is not overpopulated. There's room for billions more.

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    There's room for billions more? Hypothetically there is, yes. Having 'room' for billions more people is one thing, having sufficient resources to provide for them is another.

    Are there sufficient resources available to them to live a quality standard of life? There are plenty of people alive on earth today who are deprived of many of the basic necessities they require to enjoy a decent, or even basic standard of living (take parts of the African continent for example), even in developed western countries resources (as in school places, housing, particularly social housing etc) are finite and are at, or are fast approaching capacity. I wouldn't like to be around when the earth's resources are being stretched to try and sustain billions more people.
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    The earth produces plenty for everyone on it. The issue is mismanagement of resources. And I seriously doubt people who kill their babies are considering the earth and whether or not it's overpopulated anyway. Aside from the exceptions where the mother's health is at risk, their primary concern is generally their own convenience. That's why I think the "pro-life" movement is hopeless. You can't force people to care. It doesn't matter how much of a person we know an unborn child is now. People are focused on their rights in this society.

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    Quite honestly, if most of the pro-choice people somehow knew that the fetuses they were carrying would experience some form of pain or discomfort, they wouldn't really be pro-choice. If it were going to harm the mother in some way, I really think they'd opt to not get it done, either. All of the pro-life people would actually have fact to back them up as they throw things and scream at the mother walking into the abortion clinic.

    I'm a pro-choice person and if I wanted to have an abortion under those circumstances, I'd still get one. Not because I want my hypothetical child to experience pain but because I know that at my current age with my current goals, I wouldn't be able to successfully raise a child the way I want to if I had it now. But, that is just me.

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    Stillness, I agree that the earth does produce plenty. I can't proffer any statistics or information to disprove your statement that there are enough resources to sustain billions more people, but I am highly skeptical - no offense. I am willing to be proved wrong, a discussion like this should be an objective pursuit of the facts.

    A huge problem - and one I can't see changing - is that resources are not equally distributed. I view overpopulation as population relative to resources available to sustain the population. I believe the overpopulation debate is a highly contentious one and I'm not knowledgeable enough about to to construct any more of an argument/debate about it, what I've proffered so far is mainly opinion based on what (little) knowledge I have on the subject. If trying to force people to care is the priority of the pro choice I think they should try forcing more people to care about the children they have already brought into the world.

    People are focused on their rights, many more so than their responsibilities, but anyone who has a child has the responsibility to raise it properly. I think it's more responsible to abort a fetus than it is to raise it poorly. I'd be more ashamed of being a poor father than having my potential child aborted.

    I'm not sure how much exposure you've had to inner city environments (I use this as an example because it's where I have personally witnessed this) where teenage single parents are rife, based on the amount of neglect in dysfunctional families I've seen I just help but believe abortion is a better alternative than bringing yet ANOTHER child - which cannot and will not be given a good upbringing by any reasonable persons' standards - into the world.

    In short I believe aborting a fetus is a more responsible choice than introducing a child into the world when you aren't in a position to raise it responsibly. As I said this is MY opinion, the abortion debate is one of the most contentious and ongoing debates going.
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    f most of the pro-choice people somehow knew that the fetuses they were carrying would experience some form of pain or discomfort, they wouldn't really be pro-choice.
    If people in general took the time to read about pain in a fetus and actual fetal development they would soon find out that a majority of the required pain sensory system is not there in functioning form. Considering the abortions occur mostly before week 20, or even more popular in the embryonic stage, there just is not enough development of the nervous system going on to have a fully functioning pain sensory system. I mean there could be an option of anesthetizing and already sedated early stage fetus to prevent any potential pain she believes could happen to it but then mother could cry unfair if that anesthesia could potentially harm her. It is just a circle of never ending debate, pointless debate really as the topic will never be agreed upon.
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    Aside from the exceptions where the mother's health is at risk,. That's why I think the "pro-life" movement is hopeless. You can't force people to care. It doesn't matter how much of a person we know an unborn child is now
    Your " their primary concern is generally their own convenience " , I believe is not always a fact. Take the mothers in the Third World Countries. Do you really think that they would not chose Abortion ( if it were Available to them, Like it is for Us, that have the Options to or not to ) over giving Birth to a Child and having it slowly starve to Death ?

    Does this look like something a mother wants to see their child go through ?
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    If they had the Choice and the Means to have an Abortion... There would be 20, 000 less Dead Children in the world each Day, 20, 000 less that suffer a Severely Painful, slow Death.
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    Yes there would be 20,000 more Abortions in the early stage of Pregnancy, but those are not " Children " they are Fetus's, Embryo's, They cannot sustain life outside of the womb.
    Some Women's own Bodies Abort their fetus, it's called a Miscarriage, Their Body does it without a Choice of the Woman. The woman may not have Chosen to have it Aborted, but it happens for a Reason.

    So what is the difference or argument about, if a woman chose to abort it herself safely ( with a Dr ) , It may not be " Convenience " it may be Compassion, knowing the child would suffer and not have a Healthy, Happy Life .
    Or what about the woman that finds out her unborn child will have Cancer or some terrible Deformity, and her Knowing she has no Medical or way to Support and get that child the Care it needs. Should she be Forced to carry it through to Birth and then watch it die slowly also ?

    Sometimes having the Choice and Choosing to Abort, is a Sign of Great Sacrifice and Love.

    And to be honest, if I'd been able to Foresee the Future and know ahead of time, That my Daughter would be killed in a Horrific Car Wreck, when she was 15 months old. I would have probably chosen to abort her. So as to avoid the loving her, knowing her, holder her, watching her walk and talk.Loving her deeply and more each day, Only to have her Cruelly Taken from me.

    If I chose to abort, I would have felt sad , of course, but nothing of the pain I felt loosing her that way .. And still do to this Day .

    No one can or has the Right to Force me to do something with my Body. If I have a Mole on my neck or cheek, no one can force me to remove it.If I have a Kidney that is cancerous, or a Lung or Appendix , Again, no one can force me to keep it or remove it .. That is My Choice !!!

    To those who are " Holier than Thou Bible Thumper's" ( not talking normal Faith based people here .
    If they Claim God Created that Child and it deserves Life. Then " God " would not have given us Free will, a Brain or the Ability to Create or Discover, safe ways to Abort embryos. If it is " Gods Will " then we should never fix a Broken Limb, Suture a cut, Replace a Heart or even Operate on people at all, Take out Cysts in the Ovaries or even Hysterectomy's . That also is Interfering with Child " Reproduction " .

    We would just do with what is " Given " to us.

    And for those who cannot have a Child, because their Bodies won't allow it . Their Bodies.. His or Hers is Saying " No Child ".. Is that " Gods will ? Should they just accept what is Given or should they try another way to have that child ?, Test Tubes, , Surrogates, Adoption, In-fertilization ..

    It is No Argument or shouldn't be.. It's You Body, Your Mind, Your Spirit. You should have a " Choice ", even to make a Bad one, it's still your Choice.








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