Thread: How should I ask??

kids are great they are the most precious things in the world. Me and my fiance are expecting our first child in june and we are both in the navy.being married to someone in the service is not an easy thing.we both work hard and we both are very stressed and tired at the end of the day. but we also have to deal with the fact that its not just about us any more.its about this baby.I didnt realize until last week that he will not be at home for the babys first birthday, he will be deployed.and i cried that whole night.he's probably gonna miss the babys first words and everthing.All i am saying is just think about everything clearly before you act anything out.you all need to sit down and have a serious conversation about this.by the way if you already didnt know this the military offers lots of classes for people that are thinking about having a child.i hope this information helps.