Thread: Frustration!

Where do I start...

I have been in a serious relationship for a long time now. I am very young, 23 to be exact and before you read this do not get the wrong idea-i'm not asking for anyone's negativity.

I just simply want to talk to someone who can relate to me. My mother was diagnosed with PCOS when she was 17 years old. The doctor told her she would never have children...SUPRISE! The first time she had twins and years later she had me. My twin sisters are now 30. They were both diagnosed with PCOS and told they would never have children! One of them gave birth to twins also when she was 19 and the other just had her first baby at 30 after many prayers & treatments. I have seen 3 doctors in the past year. They all tell me the same thing..."oh you are fine, you're so young." But i'm afraid that is not the case. Finally I got someone to take a look. About 6 months ago I had an ultra sound done and they told me I had small cysts but they could not yet diagnose me with PCOS. I also have cervical displasia, which also causes infertility... I got off of my birth control about 8 months ago so we are not trying to stop anything from happening but I just can't help but wonder why it has not yet??? When I talk to anybody about this all they tell me is how young I am and how I'm perfectly normal...and it's starting to get really frustrating because I know that something is wrong. I should be pregnant by now shouldn't I???? I even calculate my ovulation-and still nothing!!!!! If anyone has any positive advice I'd appreciate it.
Thanks & God Bless!!!

I JUST WANT TO START OFF BY SAYING IM SO SORRY THIS IS HAPPENING TO YOU WELL THIS IS MY STORY IM 26 AND I STARTED MY CYCLE ABOUT THE AGE OF 11 OR 12 AND I THINK MY SECOND PERIOD I STARTED BLEEDING VERY BADLY AND PALM SIZE CLOTS WERE PASSING (SORRY SO NASTY) MY GRANDMOTHER WOULD NOT TAKE ME TO THE HOSPITAL SHE THOUGHT I WAS HAS A MISCARRIAGE EVEN THOUGH I WAS STILL A VIRGIN I PASSED OUT ON THE BATHROOM FLOOR EVERY SINCE THEN I HAVE HAD PROBLEMS FROM NOT HAVING CYCLES FOR MONTHS TO BLEEDING FOR THREE MONTHS AT A TIME AND WHILE THIS WAS ALL HAPPENING EVERY DOCTOR I WENT TO JUST GAVE ME BC PILLS AND SAID THAT IT WOULD REGULATE ME AND I WAS YOUNG IT WAS NORMAL I HAVE BEEN PROPOSED TO TWICE BY TWO EVERY FAMILY ORIENTATED GUYS I TURNED THEM DOWN I DIDN’T WANT TO MARRY A MAN THAT WANTED CHILDREN SO BADLY AND FAIL THEM AFTER ALL THAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MANY PROCEDURES I CANT EVEN COUNT WELL IN JAN 06 I FOUND OUT I WAS PREG AND IN MAY 06 I GAVE BIRTH TO A BABY GIRL AT 6 MONTHS PREG SHE LIVED 3 DAYS AND THAT IS WHEN I FOUND OUT MY CERVIX IS INCOMPETENT WELL ITS BEEN A YEAR AND I HAVE NOT GOTTEN PREG YET AND IM TIRED OF TRYING MY DOCTORS DON’T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME I HAVE NOT BEEN DIAGNOSE WITH ANY THING OTHER THEN THE CERVIX THING MY DOCTOR IS NOW PUTTING ME OFF ON ANOTHER SPECIALIST IM TELLING YOU THIS CAUSE I JUST LISTENED TO THE DOCTORS WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND BELIEVED THAT MAYBE THERE WAS NOTHING WRONG I SHOULD HAVE FOUGHT HARDER TO FIND SOME EXPLANATION AS TO WHAT WAS WRONG NOW IM SO DEPRESSED AND SO TIRED THAT IM GIVING UP MAYBE MY TIME IS UP BUT YOURS DOESN’T HAVE TO BE IF YOUR DOCTOR DOES NOT WANT TO HELP THEN GET A NEW ONE DO WHAT EVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET HOW EVER MANY CHILDREN YOU WANT GOOD LUCK