Thread: should i get a test?

hi i've just joined on here. i'm 21 years old my partner (now husband) and i have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now. my cycle is irregular from time to time. in dec /07 i started my period on the 24th and same in january 08 well 2 months ago. i have not yet started my period so to say i am 8 days late. just yesterday i noticed that i had a bit of discharge with old/new blood in it. my breasts have been sore for about two weeks now and for about two weeks i've been getting cramps like i'm about to start my period. my husband does not want me to get a test not yet anyway because i have been 2 weeks late before a couple of times and when i have i have bought a test and the day after i took i would start my monthly. so he doesn't want me to start lol. but both times i've never had discharge like this. this is the first time. i do feel hungry more than i usually do. my mother in law says i could be pregnant same with my aunt and my sister. i do want to get a test but then i don't because i know if it comes up negative i will be very upset. after trying for over a year...... i don't know what to do.....

i've just been to the loo,i've still got that discharge accept its got old blood in it