Thread: HELP..Trying

You might have had a miscarriage. I know that is something that you do not want to hear, but coming from someone that has has a miscarriage it is better to go get checked out by a doctor to make sure that it wasn't a miscarriage and if it was for you to take the right steps in getting cleaned out because if you don't get cleaned out it can harm the chances of you getting pregnant again. Good luck sweetie

Thank you for your help, Do you know of anything i can be doing to make sure i do convieve? I have heard about pills that can make you more fertal or something.. please let me knwo if anyone knows!!!

When you go in for your doctors visit talk to her/him about it. If you have had a miscarriage you will have to listen to the doctor. I know when I had mine they didn't have to clean me out because I wasn't that far along and they didn't see anything abnormal. But they told me that I needed to wait a few weeks before trying again. I haven't had another miscarriage and hopefully I am pregnant this time...I'm late but I hope everything goes well with you. You need to get a doctors appointment ASAP or it can hurt you in the long run. Good luck sweetie

Originally Posted by blueeyes07

Hello,
Heres the story.. im younger 20 almost 21, have been in my relationship for 3+ years no. I had been taking bc a couple Years back.. but have not in about 2 years, I do not use any protection at anytime. I thought i had a pretty normal cycle... but have been noticing that its been skiping around.. the last time i had my cycle was the end of january into the first couple days of feb. and then i did not have anything march other then a couple days of spotting.. I started my cycle acouple days ago, but am positive it was a misscarraige. ( verry bad cramps, heavy blood flow, and it did not look normal)
My family has not had any problems getting pregnant..
What can i Do? I want to have a baby and am scared I am not able to. Please help!!!!!!

Hey blueeyes07 I am also around the same age as you and I have been in a relationship for more than 3 years also. We are trying to conceive as well and I was on bc previously for about 3 years and I have been off of the pill for about 9 months now. If I am not pregnant right now then I am kind of scared because we have been trying for a while and I spoke to my doctor about it and he gave me a pamplet for infertility and it says if you have been off the bc for 12 months then you might not be fertile right now. I am very afraid that might be the case with me. I truely hope not because we really want to have children together. The doctor said that I can get an ovulation check to see if I'm ovulating but if I'm not then he can help me get ovulated but he didn't say how.

hello iam also the same age as you and im having the same problem! ive always thought that i was the only women in the world that was having this problem. i too have been tryen to get pregnant. so far this second month the only good thing is NO PERIOD! REAL HAPPY! but the second part about it is that i dont feel preggo! i thought my breast would be tender but they are not. i feel normal! the only thing is alot of cramping! like i feel as is im going to start my period. but nothing ever comes. i have not took a preggo test but i will this weekend!! im sorry i couldent be able to tell you if you had a misscarrage, because i have never been preggo b-4 but im sorry if you have had one!! i just wanted you to know that you are not alone sweetie! g0od luck

Originally Posted by onedaywish

hello iam also the same age as you and im having the same problem! ive always thought that i was the only women in the world that was having this problem. i too have been tryen to get pregnant. so far this second month the only good thing is NO PERIOD! REAL HAPPY! but the second part about it is that i dont feel preggo! i thought my breast would be tender but they are not. i feel normal! the only thing is alot of cramping! like i feel as is im going to start my period. but nothing ever comes. i have not took a preggo test but i will this weekend!! im sorry i couldent be able to tell you if you had a misscarrage, because i have never been preggo b-4 but im sorry if you have had one!! i just wanted you to know that you are not alone sweetie! g0od luck

Ive been pregnant for 8 weeks before back when i was aged 22. I am now 40 but have not tired to get pregnant since but plan to . I experienced the same thing i had very bad period pains the day i was due for my period and they are reular every 28 days , at approx 10.30pm in the evening.
Obviously i didnt start my period but had period pains ect while pregnant and no breasttenderness but they are only 34B i dont know if size has anything to do with it . I did feel a bit sick tho ...but i feel sick when i get a period anyway and sometimes faint . So id say that was normal for some women . I didnt gain any wieght or look like i was going to my stomach was just flat . I just wieghed the same 8 stone .

I know when my mum was pregnant with my brother and i (she was 24 hours in labour, she has a very small pelvis and i was told i have the same by a gyne so possibly id have difficulty but id opt for a C section i think they would do it anyway. My Mum had NO bump or hardly any and had to have a special build up drink as she was very small waisted , a tiny waist but my brother and i were healthy babies with no problems . When i was born i had a little period which the nurse said was a sign ofa healthy baby girl . Good luck and enjoy your pregnancy.

Chewing root ginger (fresh) will help relieve nausea .

My wife was on BC for about 6 yrs, depo then the pill. After 2yrs of trying, without BC obviously, we started to fear that we were not going to be able to concieve. Both of us were terrified to have a fertility check; My wife for taking BC for so long, and as for me, I have had a 6 month stint with a prior women while having un-protected sex (no pregnancy tG). My wife and I had always dreamed of having children and raising a family, we just wanted to wait until we thought we were ready for them. Another year goes by with an empty oven and my wife starts to talk about not having children at all. She was attempting to reconcile with the fact that one of us was infertile and our dreams of a family was going to be limited to just us two. We were constantly being herassed by both her and my family on when were going to have a baby, we never told anyone that we had been off of BC and trying very hard for one for the past 3 yrs. My wife lost it one day and balled her head off when her mother asked when we were going to start trying. A few weeks later and two days before Father's Day my wife gives me a card. It was a father's day card and it congradulated me on our expecting new one. November 17, 2005 was one of the most happiest days of my life. My little girl was born in February of '06, my boy June of '07, and now we are expecting another girl in September of '08.
Now I know this might not help the people who are trying to get pregnant right now, but you should not lose hope. And go see a doctor, we definitly do not recommend people to guess to what is going on with thier bodies, I think it will save you a lot of stress in the long run.