i was just wondering what is the chances of me being pregnant without actually having sex. we didn't have sex, just spooned without clothes on.. but my period was late about 18 days (i have it now), i have been really emotional lately and my breasts have become slightly bigger (but that could just be me being paranoid).. thanks a lot im stressing out here!

Hi trista2nv.

I assume that you mean by spooing and with clothes on, you mean only your nickers, not fully clothed? And perhaps he may have moved those pants aside a little during this but without penetration?

Don't stress anyway it never did anyone any good...

Your breast can feel bigger for lots of reasons as well, especially towards that time of the month they swell anyway.

CW

hey chandlers wish,

we spooned naked, thats why im worried because ive read that just with direct contact a lot of women have become pregnant...

Well i was being polite... You know...

Well they can just contact and travel far, if they want to... But as i said, no point worrying yet, can he remember if he passed some sperm, ever so slightly through being turned on?

CW

hey cw,
haha oh yeah i know but just thought u misunderstood, hmm well we're both pretty sure that he didnt pass sperm, but because we've been worried about it he said he's been having second thoughts of whether they may have been pre-cum, but he highly doubts it.

Gee knowledgeable i am glad.... I am so tired, should not even been here, so going soon, little work a holic, but yes i mean't pre = cum and yep, i was being polite, lol..

I think chances are slim but then i'm not god. Or the Universe, but stress can play a huge part in lots of things.

So try to calm yourself a bit, and next time spoon with nickers on.... ( smile ) , well?

Good luck i know things can be very scary in life, including looking at myself in the mirror after a 24/7 week....

CW