Pregnancy and sex...

sarahashley85 · 05-23-2008, 03:58 PM

Here is my situation, starting from the beginning. I was late last month (April 2008) by a little over a week. Which delayed my period until the 15th. I did think that pregnancy was a possiblity, but that was also an extremely stressful time so I know that stress is why I was late. That messed up my cycle though. I didn't know if I was going to start this month on the 6th (which was my previous normal cycle) or the 15th. So when I didn't start or even feel like I was about to around the 6th, I wasn't worried at all. So I waited patiently for the 15th. Well, now it's the 23rd and still no period. And on April 26th I did have unprotected sex with my boyfriend- I know.... it's unusual to know the date- but he did not "pull out". That was a mistake on both our parts, but oh well.

I have taken 2 HPT and both are negative. However, I don't trust them because I was pregnant last summer, only to mis-carry later, but I knew 100% that I was. I had already had an ultrasound and seen the heartbeat. Beore miscarrying, I was bleeding and took a HPT that came up negative. So I don't put much trust into those things.

Anyway, to my point: I think I really might be pregant now and I have been having really vivid "sexual" dreams but it's always with strange men. Is this normal during pregnancy? Just wondering, I would like to hear any thoughts about this. Or about what I typed up there ^.

**Uneeklyme** · 05-24-2008, 10:04 AM

Two negatives... your more than likely not pregnant. Stress and other factors can play in to your missing your period. I know I personally cycle with other women around me so I never know when I will have a period. Just that its going to come once a month.

On another note... "pulling out" is not birth control. I know this for a fact, its how I got my oldest son. And, if your already worried about pregnancy why are you even having unprotected sex?

Solovable · 05-24-2008, 07:23 PM

Your period can be thrown off for many different reason, stress your diet and even thinking you are pregnant can make you body be tricked into thinking so there for prolonging you period but only for so long eventually it will happen. And I have to agree with Uneeklyme about "pulling out" This is how we had our oldest as well. I was not suppose to get pregnant because I just had an Ectopic pregnancy and my Dr wanted my husband and I too wait give my body a rest. But hubby doesn't like using condoms so he "pulled out" and well that was how Ali was born. SO if you do not want to get pregnant do not use this as a forum of birth control. As for you vivid dreams I can't help you there I don't remember having such dreams with any of my 3 pregnancy's.. Good luck to you.

05-23-2008, 03:58 PM	#1
sarahashley85 Junior Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 1	Pregnancy and sex... Here is my situation, starting from the beginning. I was late last month (April 2008) by a little over a week. Which delayed my period until the 15th. I did think that pregnancy was a possiblity, but that was also an extremely stressful time so I know that stress is why I was late. That messed up my cycle though. I didn't know if I was going to start this month on the 6th (which was my previous normal cycle) or the 15th. So when I didn't start or even feel like I was about to around the 6th, I wasn't worried at all. So I waited patiently for the 15th. Well, now it's the 23rd and still no period. And on April 26th I did have unprotected sex with my boyfriend- I know.... it's unusual to know the date- but he did not "pull out". That was a mistake on both our parts, but oh well. I have taken 2 HPT and both are negative. However, I don't trust them because I was pregnant last summer, only to mis-carry later, but I knew 100% that I was. I had already had an ultrasound and seen the heartbeat. Beore miscarrying, I was bleeding and took a HPT that came up negative. So I don't put much trust into those things. Anyway, to my point: I think I really might be pregant now and I have been having really vivid "sexual" dreams but it's always with strange men. Is this normal during pregnancy? Just wondering, I would like to hear any thoughts about this. Or about what I typed up there ^.

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05-24-2008, 10:04 AM	#2
Uneeklyme Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Montana Posts: 305	Two negatives... your more than likely not pregnant. Stress and other factors can play in to your missing your period. I know I personally cycle with other women around me so I never know when I will have a period. Just that its going to come once a month. On another note... "pulling out" is not birth control. I know this for a fact, its how I got my oldest son. And, if your already worried about pregnancy why are you even having unprotected sex?

05-24-2008, 07:23 PM	#3
Solovable Junior Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 5	Your period can be thrown off for many different reason, stress your diet and even thinking you are pregnant can make you body be tricked into thinking so there for prolonging you period but only for so long eventually it will happen. And I have to agree with Uneeklyme about "pulling out" This is how we had our oldest as well. I was not suppose to get pregnant because I just had an Ectopic pregnancy and my Dr wanted my husband and I too wait give my body a rest. But hubby doesn't like using condoms so he "pulled out" and well that was how Ali was born. SO if you do not want to get pregnant do not use this as a forum of birth control. As for you vivid dreams I can't help you there I don't remember having such dreams with any of my 3 pregnancy's.. Good luck to you.