My period was regular at age 9 (poor me!) and after the first few times I had sex my period was weird... however, it got back into a regular routine again even though I have sex regularly. Some women have very regular periods on there frist times....
Every woman is different!
If the condom was on during the entire act of intercourse and did not break, you have a 0.1% chance of being pregnant... that's pretty much non-exsistant!!
As for the PMS thing... when I was pregnant I was sure my period was on the way, and was sure it was going to be double hard. I screamed, cried and threw things... and I'm not really the crying type! I would describe my pregnancy as 9 months of PMS
Relax and wait for a while for your period, if you do not get it in two weeks, take a pregnancy test and go to the doctor.
Best of luck!