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  1. 09-02-2008 01:08 PM #1
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    that 'I cant be bothered to see you today' is a good enough reason to be upset?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by shweedart View Post
    that 'I cant be bothered to see you today' is a good enough reason to be upset?!
    To me it doesn't seem like he values your time. Do you? Getting upset over it doesn't really help you know does it? it just exhaust your energy with no real emotional benefit.

    It has the underlying meaning of your not as important to him as you would like to be. I would suggest NEXT TIME see what is it that is so overwhelming instead of just getting upset and hanging up on him. Assuming this thats what you did.

    My advice is dont let it bother you and do something fun you will forget all about it.

    As far as him doing it in the future. Dont give him that power a simple "Dont speak to me like that, I have to go I'll talk to you later" Should be fine. Dont make yourself so available!

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    Totally agree with LLL...

    "Bothered" is a lazy word but it is also "dis-respect" too tired hun, or hey the guys have asked that i catch a game with them today, is "respect"

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    Quote Originally Posted by shweedart View Post
    that 'I cant be bothered to see you today' is a good enough reason to be upset?!

    Horrible thing to say to someone even if it's the truth. There's obviously no love or respect there, whoever said it.
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    Just want to add that I'm getting a hunch that you both are young. Maybe around 18?

    The problem with young adults around your age they are constantly testing and pushing the boundaries of their relationship.

    Take it as a test. Because that's what he is doing. You do the same maybe in just a different manner.

    Example: Maybe you get mad at him while your walking through the mall, So you walk a few paces in front of him to see if he is emotionally invested and is willing to "Fight" for you.

    He is testing to see what he can get away with. Today its one thing tomorrow will be a small escalation to it before you know it you will be in no control.

    I typically give advice to men so its kind of weird going against my own kind. lmao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Livelaughlove View Post
    Just want to add that I'm getting a hunch that you both are young. Maybe around 18?

    The problem with young adults around your age they are constantly testing and pushing the boundaries of their relationship.

    Take it as a test. Because that's what he is doing. You do the same maybe in just a different manner.

    Example: Maybe you get mad at him while your walking through the mall, So you walk a few paces in front of him to see if he is emotionally invested and is willing to "Fight" for you.

    He is testing to see what he can get away with. Today its one thing tomorrow will be a small escalation to it before you know it you will be in no control.

    I typically give advice to men so its kind of weird going against my own kind. lmao.

    Hope this helps

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    I've forgiven the inconsiderate bum-head
    after hours of making him feel guilty he finally came to realize why I had the ump and I got a full apology
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    Bum head - hahaha

    Ahh, i miss those days of mind games... nice work pumpkin
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