Thread: Do we learn?

You know... I believe that "hearts will always be broken" It's life....

Do we choose the wrong partner? Sometimes?

Do we love their laughter, so commence a relationship, or their zest for life, or their looks, attraction, or pity their problems, want to fight for them, for their fears and guide and help them, only to find out that we can not.... but we tried.

We can not save the world, and we can not save the person, all we can do is try. How many have done that?

But, why do we get caught up in that trap?

Awweeeee... we can make them better, we love them.... they will see...

Is there a sign there? That love is exactly that...(all sorts of things pertain/relate to that word)

We are giving souls? We want to love them, make them happy, help, solve and so we get involved in that relationship?

When really, all we do is help guide them to the next step of their life, so they can move on... And get hurt, because it wasn't meant to be? Or:-

Do we settle?

So we see some things and say , YES/PERFECT/MINE/LOVE.

But we neglect the other things, that we find out later down the track that doesn't connect, doesn't fit, and it all falls to bits.

Do we learn?

I think so.

I think that each time we do anything in life, we learn, we grow, we know next time what not to do and so we evolve to the next level.

Should we settle?

Well, what do we want really?

A perfect picture, he/she must have, he/she must be like?

It's trial and error. Isn't it?

It's happiness, memories and suffering. The after math.

But, yes, it's a life lesson, if it's not mean't to be, it's not mean't to be and I am a believer that from there, we can sense and feel and know another added piece of the puzzle of what we have in-fact learnt of ourselves, our being.. And so, we try again.

When i first came here these are the sort of posts I wrote.

Could put it in a blog but they were'nt there then, so why start now.

Just know....

That we do grow, we have helped people, we have settled, or gone into relationships that were wrong, with the view of making it right and the hope of it turning out the way we hope, only to feel that we failed.

No, we didn't... We allowed them to see, and if they didn't we tried.

And, if that be the case, the later, we learn't that we are deserving and perhaps we deserve better, we deserve someone more equal, and not to save someone, we can do that as friends.

I know alot can relate to this and I haven't written this for me, rather, many a post I have read, and many whom are confused even now.

Remember, communication is the key.

If you can not, totally communicate then let it be.

CW