Thread: Long-term boyfriends talks to one person too much...

My boyfriend of over threee years recently started talking to his "friend" a little too much when we were having relationship problems. He said the reason why is because of our fights and I can understand that. He's been friends with her for over 8 years and says he liked her before like 5 years ago. They always talked online often, but not on the phone. He said that when he started talking to her again, he felt the happy like when he liked her before, he says it's nothing, now. I'm really don't understand this whole situation. I feel like a fool, but it might only be his friend like he says. He does call her behind my back, because he knows I don't like her. She knows I'm his girlfriend. And I'm not sure if I'm making a problem out of nothing....the counselor said that I should not be snooping and I would not find any reason to start a fight. I'm confused and I don't want to push him out the door, but do I let this continue. We've never faced something like this before. He does have a lot of girlfriends, but only that. Should I call her myself? HELP ME!
Confused.