Thread: Nasty Dreams

i would say its definatly insecurity,

maybe get some type of commitment? like i dunno get each other commitment rings?

Hi Becky,

doesnt sound un-normal. we all have dreams like that once in awhile. You did mention that you had jealousy issues. what are they? maybe they explain some of the dreams...

Thank you those who replyed

lol we dont live together... we do on the weekend tho.
were in long distant yasee and we stay at each others over the weekend.

I can say my jealousy started wen i actually fell in love.
i hate seeing girls add him on myspace, it makes my stomache turn.
and if i see a girl comment his pic sayin hes fit, ill go proper sickk at him.
and then we'll end up arguing.

things have happened in my past. i started hangin round with these boys wen i was 14 an lucky me i chose an ASBO an a .
yes they both treated me like .
and forced me into stuff i didnt wanna do.
my boyfriend knows everyything bout my past and ive let it all so if thats wots causin the dreams i dunno how it is if i havnt got it bottled up inside me.

i think its the jealousy thats mainly causin my dreams.
i wish i wasnt jealous, its like the worse possible feeling everrrrr!

becky.

gutted they cut my swearing out lolll... sorry if it didnt make sense!!
becky.

I can understand you being jealous, mostly because of what has happened to you in the past. sometimes we see what isnt there because of the past and it drives us nuts.

You are normal, new to having a good relationship and it's no surprise that you are feeling the way you are. You two live a distance apart, cant be with each other all the time, and see other girls saying he's hot.

does HE do anything to make you jealous, or is it you doing it to yourself?

yeah, it sounds like you are doing it to yourself somewhat.

I think you need to realize that it isnt a competition. There are always people that are more fit, or better looking, or more wealthy than others. There is a young woman who works in my office who is drop dead gorgeous, and prettier than most every other female in my organization. But if all I could choose to be with was from people in my organization, it wouldnt be her.

I'm sure that there are other men in the world you look at and think WOW!, but that doesnt mean you'd love them more than your current BF.

It's OK to appreciate other people being good looking and even commenting on it to a certain extent.

You are a beautiful and wonderful young woman. If your BF is worth anything, he loves you for you.