For what it is worth, here is a Male opinion. If he was too weak to talk face to face with you and relied on texting you over a big issue like this, then he was either (a) scared of the consequences of becoming a father, (b) gutless or (c) using you for sex. The fact that he sent an email saying how he didnt find you attractive anymore is a cop-out.
Even if he did not want the child, the fact that he did not offer one bit of support to you after the miscarriage shows me that he is as mature as a piece of dog-poo and is not worth worrying about.
My wife has had 2 miscarriages and both of them affected me incredibly. It was, after all, a piece of me being lost as well.
Take time out to enjoy your friends & family who you know truly love you & forget about Men for a while. Look after YOU, and in time you will realise how lucky you are that you are not with the moron.
I wish you well, Jaycee. Keep your chin up!