I know my friends husband is cheating

**rcoreyus** · 01-22-2009 10:03 AM

I don't know the people involved, so please forgive my suspicious. A divorced woman claims that she is having an affair with a married man. Lets this information slip to one of the married man's friends. Could be a plan to break up the marriage because she is interested in him.

On a side note, it is really difficult to tell if a marriage is really perfect. Things can look fine from the outside, and yet be a disaster. For example, look at all of the women and men who post here that their spouses are almost never willing to sleep with them. Friends wouldn't know that.

**Tabatha S.** · 01-22-2009 10:28 AM

There is another option.
Confront HIM with the knowledge you have.
Knowing that his secret isn't safe might cause a change in his behavior, or make him confess.
I do agree with the other posters tho... better to stay quiet.
Better to not know altogether...

**Married15** · 01-22-2009 11:08 AM

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

I don't know the people involved, so please forgive my suspicious. A divorced woman claims that she is having an affair with a married man. Lets this information slip to one of the married man's friends. Could be a plan to break up the marriage because she is interested in him.

On a side note, it is really difficult to tell if a marriage is really perfect. Things can look fine from the outside, and yet be a disaster. For example, look at all of the women and men who post here that their spouses are almost never willing to sleep with them. Friends wouldn't know that.

What he said here and his other post!

**Kung Fu Kitty** · 01-22-2009 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by happy ending

yes, reading the others has just comfirmed my initial opinion. i know you want to help your friend, and so just stay out of it, she will ask for your help if she needs it. just be there for her.

i agree...nothing good could come from getting involved.however,i would put some distance between yourself and the woman who is having the affair.not somebody i would want close to me if she thinks its ok to do this.