Thread: the title of just friends..:(

I think the last thing you want is me replying first "yet again" but hey? No one else has and they will...

I am so proud of you for taking the advise on self help on your own self esteme.

For those that don't know and this is why you should stick to the original thread and continue, your girlfriend is a 'professional dancer' one with a tad of class and doesn't stray yes? But is complemented for her work by colleagues.

I think she is using an excuse regarding her parents, I think her first love was one of a bit of a rouge , tough not nice ..Her dancing in an elite way is expression and one of I am a lady, class, it's for him, he disrespected her, "this is only an opinion" and so she does this in a classic way... You are soft, she needs the love but can't love you , you are not him nor are you like him, you are you, sweet and nice...

He was in his world, he ignored her, he played his video games she was nothing, so she wanted him to love her, still does, therefore, she clings to him.

You cling to her, puppy, love, etc, as you know and this is not where she was and she is not ready to accept this "perfect love", rather seeking why the ex didn't pay her the attention.

Ok so you omitted in your last thread that she had been pregnant but this is an excuse, "how do I tell him that I haven't jumped my hurdles and sex is sex and therefore i don't want it? Nothing to do with her having previously been pregnant, after all there are condoms and birth control.

She is now putting you down " don't buy me" , how dare you, I don't feel love.

You my sweet don't love "this girl" but you have invested so much time, energy, help you feel you can save her and make her yours. You know what? It's called , settling, and the need and desire to be loved...

You need to know that someone else will love you till the moon and back for what you have done, are doing... This girls heart is elsewhere and really the way she is treating you, is not what you deserve, nor want is it?

You don't need to change your ways, she loves the money that you give her, the apartment, car, dog, she loves that you are there, but she gives you no love, no sex, tells you reasons for this, but is still there, what do you get? Nothing.

This is my advise..... She is using, she may want what you can give but she can't accept it, move on to someone who will and makes you feel like the man you are.

She is one person amongst a sea of women... Simply? You don't need to change but you do need to say, pfttt sorry lady, your here for me 100% or i will be gone....

CW