OK, so my previous thread mentioned how I think that my bf went out for dinner with an out of town co-worker that was here, but ommitted to tell me about the girl co-worker that was also there. Much of my feedback was advise to bring it up but in a joking manner, so this is what I've done. My window of opportunity came up and I used the humour just to let him know that I know about the dinner (in so many ways without coming straight out saying it). I wasn't mad, I was just teasing and chuckling. So know he's thinking, hmmmm how the heck would she find out about this....was it from the girl co-worker or maybe Rog said something to someone else in the office inocently off the cuff and then maybe that person mentioned something to me.....the possiblities could be endless, but the main thing is "she knows"...but how? So now I guess you could say that I'm getting him back because it's going to eat him up inside wondering how I know, and hopefully he won't pull anymore ommissions like this. In ending, my joking comment was "don't worry, I don't get mad, I get even" hahaha. See how he likes it!
Anyway, just wondering if there is anyone else who has stories about getting even?
The best thing to do to him is not to do any thing at all. Just act as if you are doing some thing. Like go some where and just say that you are going out and leave. Dont give him any further info. It will eat him alive wondering where you went. If you are out some where and he calls and asks who you are with give short answers like "with a friend" and then giggle. It will KILL him to not know, and the best part is you wont be doing any thing wrong. Give it a try, I bet you will enjoy it. lol.
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