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    ok, i'm new here but here it goes..

    A while ago, i hit it off with a guy. We both liked each other but it didn't go much further than kissing really as were out with friends. Afterwards we had a really bad argument that lasted for months. That's over now but we're still not friends as he won't talk to me.

    I want him like really badly, it's all i can think about. The thing is we're still at school and if i tell him he'll just go and tell everyone else cos that's what he's like. I'm desperate for him, and i really don't know what to do... it's driving me mad!

    please help
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    Maybe send him an apology or ask for a truce for starters? You don't have to apologize for your position on the disagreement, but you can apologize for letting the argument esculate to the point that you no longer talk and you'd like to 'resume negotiations'.
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    i've tried and he just laughs or shrugs it off
    he's really not a nice guy

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    Let me get this straight......he's really not a nice guy.....but you're desperate for him???
    You must not think very highly of yourself if you would settle for a guy like this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by musiclove. View Post
    i've tried and he just laughs or shrugs it off
    he's really not a nice guy

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    I think you need to find a new friend. If he isn't interested in making up there is nothing you can do but move on. You deserve better.
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    i would have to agree with karma; if he's not a nice guy WHY the heck are you wasting your time. who knows, someone that you might not know might like you. start looking around! don't waste your time.
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    Look at your signature? "A bad boy can be for a girl"....

    You always want what you can't have.

    The unatainable, much like guys that keep trying to score with a girl that refuses to give it up.

    You only want him because you can't have him and because he's tough and bad and it would be a challenge to succeed.

    "DONG", that was the hammer down that say nooooooooo.. haha.. This guy will ruin your reputation and talk down about you all over the place.

    That's not worth even working towards is it?

    Move on mentally and enjoy dating others.

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    hmm... sounds to me like your interest in him is purely physical? If so, maybe try to focus on allll the other good-looking guys around you. He's only one out of millions! and I can safely say there are a lot of other guys way better looking than him. Plus, don't sell yourself short; go for both sides of the equation! Look for a guy you're into both phsyically and as a person (i.e. you have a lot in common, he cares about you, treats you well, etc.). I'm sure you'll have much better luck that way.
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    the best way to get back at someone is to show you can move on and don't need them. Never make someone a priority, if they only make you an option. Would I be right in assuming you may be in middle or high school?
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    Quote Originally Posted by musiclove. View Post
    ok, i'm new here but here it goes..

    A while ago, i hit it off with a guy. We both liked each other but it didn't go much further than kissing really as were out with friends. Afterwards we had a really bad argument that lasted for months. That's over now but we're still not friends as he won't talk to me.

    I want him like really badly, it's all i can think about. The thing is we're still at school and if i tell him he'll just go and tell everyone else cos that's what he's like. I'm desperate for him, and i really don't know what to do... it's driving me mad!

    please help

    I think what you need to ask yourself is if you're ok with him telling people about it. If you are able to make up mind about that I'm sure you can take action correspondingly
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