teen relationships.
do you think its not good for
a two people still in high school
to spend every day together?
I get sick of even my closest friends after a few days of hanging out together. I remember when I was young I'd spend everyday with my friends and then we'd have a big blow out and take a break from each other for a few days and then all would be cool again.
Same probably goes for boyfriend/girlfriend relationships I suppose.
Yes, I think it's not a good thing. If you are with him every day, then you can't be spending quality time establishing good girlfriend relationships.....or quality time with your family. I've been out of high school for 8 years, and I can assure you that no guy I dated then no matter how much I thought I loved him, means ANYTHING to me now in comparison to the friendships I established and the time I spent making memories with my family.
Aside from that, no matter how much in love you are with ANYONE, you need to establish independance and you're certainly not doing that if you're with him every day. Not good for any relationship.
I completely understand what you're saying.Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster
My friends and mom have told me the same.
But every time i try to pull myself away from him and just
do my own thing, i immediately wish i wouldnt have and just
spent the day with him.
Any advice on how to get over that?
In any relationship where they've spent everyday together in highschool has never worked out that I've seen. I personally have never done this, because my mom always told me to never spend all of your time on a boyfriend. It usually ends, because you run out of things to talk about and once you graduate highschool people really change and you find out that what they want out of life isn't what you want anymore or vice versa.
But have things to do. Go volunteer at a local hospital or nursing home. Help out your grandparents/family members. Work ahead on your school work. Often times it'll bring you closer to him to spend a few days away because so much will have gone on that day, that you'll want to tell him and you'll be really appreciative of the time you do spend together.
When at times you find yourself lost, go back to where you started.♥
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