Thread: emotional roller coaster

Babe, you two are chalk and cheese..

You feel you can make him see the real world whilst you live in it, positive...

He's negative.

No one, no one has the right to put someone down, and to take it all back is "oh no she will leave"...

What they say they mean because they live in a negative world. And, so everything they see is negative.

8 - 10 is what 14 in Australian? Sexy beautiful but more importantly your inner self is perfect, you give and give till you can't give anymore... You strive to succeed until you do and will.

You would save the world if you could..... You have and continue to try to save him.

I don't know what to say...

I know you want to stand by him... I also know your goals and aspirations and I also see your pictures and how beautiful you are and that the inner you shines and I also see the encouragement you give me when I feel down, privately.

I can only say, you really need to "stop saving the world" if they don't join you in it find someone who will...

Your journey to where you are going needs it.

Your one of the most strongest women i know that never lets anything get you down but is that true? Or do you look for reasons not to, ie) he's negative and has this problem and that problem etc, etc, babe, will that ever, ever change?

You can't save the world...

Nor can I, we, there are on the same page.

Hurtful comments come from him feeling you are better than him, he never will be that's what you think is it not? In his eyes, he sees all the hard work you put in, your positive thoughts, your natural instinct to go get, and make it happen whilst he can't.

Sometimes, opposites attract, it's admired... But again, if someone puts you down for it as he has before and now your weight? It's that he feels inadequate and i know you know the reasons.

And you can make him see, can you? Really? He is whom he is... he hasn't changed since you met... He has no ambition, goals, drive even though you have pointed him in the right directions.

Been along time sweetheart......

Keep your dreams, keep your positiveness, keep going, but really really, see, as I don't think in all the time you've tried and continueD to that he can see. He resents, and that silly but he does.

If you succeeded in business as you will... And became a millonairre, would he sit back and say phew.... I don't have to work?

You know I've been there.

You know I'm older.

This is not what you want to hear but need to.

Forgive me.

I just can't see anymore how you can jump this and make him see.

You give your heart and soul.... he insults you?

Time to have a clear think...

Your a special woman in so many ways.

Wildchild Could he be trying to fullfill a script he has in his mind that you will leave him, that he doesn't deserve you? Men (and women) with that script set up are awfully difficult to cope with because they will do what it takes to make you leave. There is a belief that they aren't good enough, therefore if you are willing to be with them, there must be something wrong with you. Kind of hard to get around

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I think so.... the only other way around this is to tell him that you are whom you are, will succeed because that is whom you are, he needs to see and accept whom you are... And, get over it.


CW