Thread: Mother In Law is a !!

I have a problem, well not exactly a problem .. But, me and my boyfriend, techically my fiance, have been together for 2 almost 3 years. His mother and I have had a good relationship in the past. But recently I felt like she was trying to turn him against me. I did live in her house for about a year but she kicked me out and we are renting a room. We are short on money because only I work, but we manage. But as you can imagine, we do fight about money, and once we start he always brings up "Well its your fault we're here, we waste money every week because you got kicked out my mom's".

OK! I got kicked out her house because her daughters use to steal my clothes and one day I saw they had my socks, so I addressed it and their mother kept insisting it was not my sock. The girl and I had an argument and I lost it and hit her. So how could I not think she stole my stuff when she did it in the past?

Anyway, back to the story.. Well we ALWAYS fight over his stupid mother. Everybody thinks she went overboard kicking me out, I tell him that and he just curses me out saying its my fault.

We've always fought about his mother because she is crazy. She tries to control everything and tries to win his love. His grandmother said his mother poisoned his mind, and I pretty much think so too.

After me and him moved out, she called his father and told him about everything me and him went through, she lied and said she did not kick me out. His dad said he doesn't want us together, but he did not say it to him, he found out his father said this through his mother. On top of that, that later called my mother telling her all these lies.

I used to like her until she started spitting on my name, me and her were very close at one point. Until I felt that she wanted her son to break up and leave me.

Why is this stupid lady trying to my life up? On top of that, why is her son defending her actions, but is choosing to live with me? Like I hate that so bad, I wish I could put her down. She is the problem and my boyfriend (fiance) can't see that. What can I do or say?