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Reply With QuoteI just checked out the Welcomed Consensus and it is very expensive and far away so that is not an option. Maybe I should take his hand and plop it between my legs and see what he does!?!?
That would help. My husband has never touched me. I give him BJ's before intercourse but has never tried to help me out. I love giving him BJ's and he really enjoys them but does nothing for me.
I just checked out the Welcomed Consensus and it is very expensive and far away so that is not an option. Maybe I should take his hand and plop it between my legs and see what he does!?!?
It seems that you have found an escape by chatting to this other guy. Although I personally would not be happy if my fiance was doing this without my knowledge I believe that it is the attention you crave. Talking and sexy chat is fine between you and this other guy but getting found out will hurt your husband, it may be words now but it could turn in to something more serious even if he does live miles away.
As for you husband being all to willing to receive pleasure maybe its about time you told him how you feel and suggest what he can physically and mentally do to turn you on.
You are right. I have gotten alot of attention from my new friend and like I said before he is amazing. I do wish my hubby was like him as far as sex goes. My hubby is an awesome husband and father and very much a keeper so I don't want to mess that up. Sex is a beautiful thing and I truly want and crave that in our marriage. He gets what he wants but I don't get a thing.
It sounds like your husband is a decent and dedicated guy to you and your family except where sex is concerned. Men can be very selfish in the bedroom department and as long as you keep providing him with the pleasure he will keep taking it.great sex is about two people who love eachother both being satisfied. Try talking to him about ways to please you whilst giving him an incentive of a favour in return. talking to this other guy may be a quick fix to the attention you crave from your husband. try having a chat about previous intimate moments you have shared, maybe a few memories will ignite the fire for you again. I hope this helps but you have to be strong and decide what's best for you and remember you are together because of the love you share and no other guy can match that through a few text messages.
I can visualise all this man has read on this forum, all the knowledge he has gained and possibly also, all the erections he has had from reading and now he has someone to text it to, share with whilst making that person "his" feel beautiful, sexy and wanted, what a game!!!
It's like on-line dating where they look for the lonley house wives with no sex life and play on it.
This is dangerous because you will fall for his "persona", I could almost guarantee if you met him and slept with him it wouldn't be half as good.
It's a fantasy of the will and desire of what your missing that your ful-filling and it will be difficult for you to let go of it/him whilst you may start to lose love for your husband eventually as well and decide to move on as a result.
You have to tell your husband that you are very sexual at this point in your life and want to experiment with everything, is he willing? See what he says, and then do a Sharon Stone, un-cross your legs, nakedness for all to see, well him.. haha.
Seriously, you have to communicate with your husband over it all rationally and not accusingly, just discussions over where you are at now in life and what you desire.
I think you have established what you needed from this guy, I think you should cut that off now, lesson learnt.. I think it's selfish to continue for own needs in that regard, whilst I understand don't get me wrong, it's better to try to work it with your husband and if you can't and need so much more, then consider what's more important sex life or love and if you need both not one or the other then walk and find it.. Not mix two men together to gain it, whilst married...
You would be amazed at what you can learn and feel from yourself, about yourself, and that sensual feeling you can hold on your own without either of them..
Go in another direction.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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