Thread: my boyfriend is bi sexual how do i cope

This fascinates me. He's bisexual, but can't seem to be equally attracted to both men and women, and this is evident if he's making you not act just as yourself. It's almost like it's easier for him to have a girlfriend who pretends to be what he truly wants, which is a male partner.

These issues aren't going to go away unless he's willing to make some MAJOR changes in his routines. I can't say if he'll outgrow this, or if it'll always be something he secretly desires throughout his life. Has he ever had a boyfriend? It almost seems like he's behaving so extremely because he's never been able to let it out of his system with another guy.

It's pleasing to see you're so ok and accepting of this man. Cudos to you. But never let a man take advantage of your submissive kindness. It becomes habitual if you never say no and he won't ever feel a need to change because you're not putting up a resistance or threatening to leave. Besides, no double standards here. What's ok for him to do is ok for you to do, so make him act out YOUR fantasies for a change. Mimic his behavior and see how it makes him feel. If you already know that changing the dominance won't go over well, then I hope you see the problem.

So let step one be putting your foot down by not moving in with him just yet.

I wish we had a 'like' button. Because I would be 'liking' Ren_07's comment