Thread: he does not want to marry me

ok he wants to accomplish so much more before he gets married........... in real life two people get married to help each other accomplish things cause well they have similar interest and want to expereince similar events together.

This man is not worth it.

He wants to date more and expereince more women before he settles down that is what that tells me .

Don't lose another moment of sleep over this man or think about it anymore..... he gave you his answer.

You are worth it go out have some fun find someone who wants to have all that fun with you and have the whole package. Not someone who wants to compartmentalize their life when i reach this i'll do this. Go get it all!

He has issues, it is not as if he is in doubt. He clearly does not want marriage. He will be an old person before he realizes he has lost a good person. I have a friend who is 76 years old. When he divorced he began dating a wonderful lady who loved him.
After dating and loving each other for 3 years, she finally told him goodbye.
Now, as an elderly man, he regrets not marrying her.
He keeps telling me it was the single regret he has in all his life. At the time, many years ago, he couldn't bring himself to marry her, even though he loved her with all his heart.
Life goes on. Marry another, especially if his ex has experienced the same thing. He is not changing.

wow! I totally agree with Chandler.. I have been going through the same thing.. My ex sd the same as yours.. im not sure if i have plans for you in the future... all that stood out to me when he sd that was.. I want to get married, but not to you... well after that we took off to Europe.. he came back and we started to hang out again.. everyweekend... our friends still called us a couple.. finally one day i got up and sd we cant do this anymore.. i need the time to get over you... he sd that was good choice.. a couple weeks went by, we sd hello here and there and that was it. Finally i was out one night, someone drugged my drink at the bar and i was lost.. i had no idea where i was, no shoes, no cell phone etc (thank god nothing happened) i called him in the middle of the night to come get me and he got really mad... he didnt want to talk to me again.. he thought i purposely did it!
It comes down to him being selfish! Getting the best of both worlds.. it sucks, and its really hard to let go..trust me.. but i would get running sista! He needs to realize that you will not sit there on a shelf so pretty waiting for him to come back when he realizes that he cant find another like you!

I am so shocked seeing this. I dint know others had replied. However I was not succesful.
I went back to him again! Yesterday we had the similar talk and broke up all over again. He begged me telling me how much he loved me
But that he was not sure what he wanted. As in he was not sure if I was what he wanted. I broke it off again and this time I truly want to move on
I bought a book called its called a breakup cos its broken. I hope that would help. I love him so much and it seems I can't live without him
He kept tellimg me he loved me. he did not want me to go. How can u love someone but not want to marry her?
He said he is not commitment phbic and wants to get married soon. He is just not sure if its mee.
Caterpillar u cld PM me so we cld chat and always support each other. I need help. Or if u have a blackberry we cld do bbm